N.R. v. B.S.R.

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APPROVAL OF THE APPELLATE DIVISION

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SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY

APPELLATE DIVISION

DOCKET NO. A-2725-23

N.R.,1

Plaintiff-Respondent,

v.

B.S.R.,

Defendant-Appellant.

________________________

Submitted December 18, 2024 – Decided April 10, 2025

Before Judges Paganelli and Torregrossa-O'Connor.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey,

Chancery Division, Family Part, Middlesex County,

Docket No. FV-12-0183-24.

B.S.R., appellant pro se.

Respondent has not filed a brief.

PER CURIAM

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We use initials or party designations to protect the confidentiality of the victim

in these proceedings. R. 1:38-3(d)(10).

Defendant, B.S.R., appeals from a March 20, 2024 final restraining order

(FRO) entered against him protecting plaintiff, N.R., pursuant to the Prevention

of Domestic Violence Act (PDVA), N.J.S.A. 2C:25-17 to -35. Because the trial

court's finding of the predicate act of harassment and the need for an FRO was

grounded in substantial, credible evidence in the record, we affirm.

I.

The following facts are derived from the FRO trial in which defendant

was represented by counsel and plaintiff proceeded pro se. Plaintiff was the sole

witness.

A.

At the time of the FRO hearing, the parties had been married for seventeen

years and were pursuing a divorce. They share a minor child, born in 2011. On

July 12, 2023, plaintiff obtained a temporary restraining order (TRO), alleging

that defendant harassed her by contacting her repeatedly by text and telephone—

continuing a pattern of prior abuse. She subsequently amended the TRO to add

a claim that "defendant filed an emergent application with the family court,"

incorporating "defamatory allegations" without proof and "traumatizing" her.

Plaintiff also alleged defendant, although incarcerated in Pennsylvania, was

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utilizing his "[p]ower of [a]ttorney" "to stalk [her] accounts," and enlisting

others to surveil her home and her child's school.

At the hearing, plaintiff described a history of past abuse including an

alleged September 2022 incident, during which defendant attacked her

physically. Plaintiff explained she "ha[s] scars on [her] skin" from that incident

during which he choked her and dragged her by her hair from outside into the

house. She presented photographs depicting her injuries, that she testified

resulted from defendant "pulling out [her] hair" from "the nape of [her] neck,"

"hit[ting her] in [her] face" by her lower left eyelid, and "put[ting her] in [a]

headlock." Defendant objected to the admission of the photographs, asserting

they were not properly authenticated, but plaintiff stated she took the photos,

which fairly and accurately depicted her injuries resulting from defendant's

attack. The court overruled the objection and admitted the photos into evidence.

She testified that in March 2023 a victim advocacy group in Pennsylvania

issued "a cease[-]and[-]desist order," directing defendant to cease all

communication with plaintiff, after defendant expressed "[v]ery horrible things"

about her in multiple letters. Plaintiff was unable to properly authenticate an

April 19, 2023 letter from the Pennsylvania Department of Corrections, where

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defendant was housed, acknowledging the protective order, but the court

accepted her testimony regarding the prior restriction on contact with her.

Plaintiff also alleged that between January and April 2023, police

performed numerous wellness checks at her residence initiated by defendant.

Plaintiff testified that in January 2023, she observed through her Ring security

camera footage of police shining flashlights into her home and later learned the

officers were looking for her and her son to ensure their safety. She testified

another visit involved police officers "banging on the door," leaving her son

"traumatized." After filing a complaint with police, plaintiff learned that

defendant's nephew made the calls.

Plaintiff indicated that during that time she filed a lawsuit seeking to evict

defendant's mother as a tenant from the parties' property. Plaintiff claimed

defendant used his power of attorney to make his mother part-owner, resulting

in dismissal of the suit. She cited this as another instance of defendant

attempting to control her life despite being incarcerated.

Plaintiff testified that in June 2023, defendant called the parties' son from

the prison facility, and she heard defendant "yelling and cursing" at him,

ultimately causing him to cry. Plaintiff admitted she attempted to visit

defendant with her son on one occasion despite the cease-and-desist order but

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explained she did so to allow her son to see his father. She stated the facility

did not allow them to visit defendant due to the no-contact order.

Plaintiff also claimed that on November 29, 2023, to further harass her,

defendant filed an application against her in family court, which was later

dismissed. She explained that defendant falsely alleged she was a prostitute

with an OnlyFans account, and her "Tik[]Tok [wa]s a prostituting website."

Plaintiff emphasized defendant did this while still incarcerated, expressing

"fear[] of what he would do outside with no restraints."

Plaintiff further testified that defendant, through a mobile application

provided by the correctional facility, transmitted multiple "horrible" messages ,

calling plaintiff a "whore," accusing her of "sleeping around with his friends,"

and telling plaintiff she "wouldn't get anywhere without him, that [she will]

regret this." The court admitted into evidence screenshots of the messages sent

to her on June 30 and July 10 over defendant's objection after plaintiff explained

how the mobile application worked and that these were true and accurate

depictions of the messages. Defendant did not dispute that he sent the messages,

instead contending that some of the messages were "cherry-picked" and

incomplete and only contained a portion of the conversation. Defendant did not

offer the allegedly omitted portions of the conversation.

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In the messages defendant disparaged plaintiff, calling her a "clown" and

"dummy," and claiming she was "suffering from a mental disorder." Defendant

sent another message threatening to send the police to the home of someone

close to plaintiff after accusing plaintiff of "sit[ting] on [her] deformed a[**] all

day talking bad about [defendant]" to that person.

She also explained that defendant placed calls to her between June 23 and

July 11, 2023, and presented a screenshot from her cell phone voicemail records,

showing approximately twenty-four "voice message[s] from the [correctional]

facility." Defendant objected to admission of the whole call history and claimed

plaintiff could not verify from the document that defendant sent these messages.

After plaintiff testified that she entered the prison number into her phone under

defendant's name, the court admitted the printed call history, adding that if

defendant had reservations, he should "cross-examine . . . plaintiff as to her

phone, her methods of doing things, [and] how she registers names in her

phone."

In summation, plaintiff argued defendant's history and predicate acts of

domestic violence warranted entry of an FRO. Defendant countered that

plaintiff failed to establish harassment or actual threats, and did not establish

that future restraints were necessary, particularly as defendant was incarcerated.

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Defendant additionally asserted his messages were "protected First Amendment

speech" which "can[not] rise to the level necessary for harassment," citing

S.B.B. v. L.B.B., 476 N.J. Super. 575 (App. Div. 2023).

B.

The court's oral decision followed, granting the FRO. Acknowledging

plaintiff's evidence and testimony "came in a little convoluted," it otherwise

found credible plaintiff's version of the recent communications as well as the

parties' prior history. The court stated plaintiff "was prepared to testify, . . . she

knew the history between the parties, . . . she presented it in detail,

[and] . . . accurately," and further noted her "even[-]toned" and "confident[]"

testimony.

Despite rejecting plaintiff's documentation of the cease-and-desist order,

the court accepted plaintiff's testimony that the restriction of contact existed,

placing the June and July contacts in context. The court found plaintiff

established the predicate act of harassment, finding defendant's communications

to plaintiff stated "very horrible things" and included "threatening remarks." It

read from the text messages and found they reflected "much hostility" toward

plaintiff, directing "threatening words and potentially actions to . . . plaintiff."

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It also found the string of calls and voicemails reflected an "extensive" number

of calls in a short period of time.

Specifically addressing harassment under N.J.S.A. 2C:33-4(a), the court

determined that, although not made at "extremely inconvenient hours,"

"defendant was making contacts to . . . plaintiff with the purpose to harass her,"

which included language the court found to be "offensively co[a]rse

and . . . likely to cause annoyance or alarm." It found "[t]he

evidence . . . show[ed] that the phone calls by [defendant] were repeated" and

"defendant's actions were clearly, as indicated, to harass . . . plaintiff" and

"made to continue the cycle of domestic violence," to "alarm" and "control"

plaintiff, and "to make her concerned about her safety and well-being." The

court noted plaintiff's proofs also met N.J.S.A. 2C:33-4(c), finding defendant's

many contacts with plaintiff in a short span of time satisfied the subsection's

requirements. Accordingly, the court found "the predicate act of harassment

ha[d] been committed."

Regarding whether plaintiff required future protection, the court found a

significant history of domestic violence. Crediting plaintiff's testimony, the

court recounted the prior abuse, including the September 2022 assault, finding

defendant "choked [plaintiff], head-locked her, [and] threw her to the ground,"

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resulting in scars depicted in numerous photographs. The court found the

previous acts of domestic violence, "[w]hether they were reported or

not[,] . . . . did occur."

The court added that the testimony and photographs established plaintiff

"was . . . in an abusive relationship, one that the [PDVA] seeks to protect."

Despite defendant's incarceration, the court considered plaintiff's safety "when

he is no longer incarcerated," expressing that it might be "too late" if the court

did not act. Notably, the court found the various acts "were all ways

that . . . defendant . . . s[ought] to exercise [coercive] control over [plaintiff]."

Additionally, the court noted the testimony "as to instances of the divorce action

in essence fueling this action," including "claims [o]f dissipation of assets [ and]

changing names on real estate[ and] deeds." It found defendant was "using

people on the outside," which supported a finding of defendant attempting to

exercise coercive control over plaintiff. The court recognized the importance of

wellness checks but found defendant's actions were done "to harass . . . plaintiff,

to gain control, [and] to let her know he [wa]s still there." Thus, the court

reasoned that the "extensive history of domestic violence between the parties"

resulted in "immediate danger to . . . plaintiff [which] must be stopped"

regardless of defendant's incarcerated status.

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The court further stated that "[p]eople need to feel safe when they are

alone in their homes . . . [and] defendant ha[d] not made plaintiff feel so."

Accordingly, the court issued an FRO against defendant "based upon the

preponderance of the evidence of not only the history of domestic violence,

but . . . the predicate act."

II.

Defendant appeals, arguing the trial court based its finding of harassment

on "insufficient and unreliable evidence," noting the text messages were

protected speech, and, like the call history, were "incomplete[,] . . . one-sided,"

and not properly authenticated. He further contends the trial court erred by

finding plaintiff's testimony credible and failing to acknowledge inconsistencies

in her testimony. Defendant also asserts the trial court "misapplied the legal

standard[] for granting a[n FRO]" and "violated his due process rights." Finally,

defendant claims his counsel was deficient and denied him effective assistance

of counsel.

III.

Our review of a trial court's FRO determination is limited. See C.C. v.

J.A.H., 463 N.J. Super. 419, 428 (App. Div. 2020). Importantly, "[w]e accord

substantial deference to Family Part judges, who routinely hear domestic

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violence cases and are 'specially trained to detect the difference between

domestic violence and more ordinary differences that arise between couples.'"

Ibid. (quoting J.D. v. M.D.F., 207 N.J. 458, 482 (2011)). The trial court's

findings "are binding . . . when supported by adequate, substantial, credible

evidence." Cesare v. Cesare, 154 N.J. 394, 412 (1998) (citing Rova Farms

Resort, Inc. v. Invs. Ins. Co. of Am., 65 N.J. 474, 484 (1974)). "Deference is

especially appropriate 'when the evidence is largely testimonial and involves

questions of credibility.'" Ibid. (quoting In re Return of Weapons to J.W.D., 149

N.J. 108, 117 (1997)).

In our review, we "should not disturb the 'factual findings and legal

conclusions of the trial judge unless [we are] convinced that they are so

manifestly unsupported by or inconsistent with the competent, relevant and

reasonably credible evidence as to offend the interests of justice.'" Cesare, 154

N.J. at 412 (quoting Rova Farms, 65 N.J. at 484). Conversely, our review of the

court's legal conclusions is de novo. See C.C., 463 N.J. Super. at 428-29.

A trial court must engage in a two-step analysis before issuing an FRO.

See Silver v. Silver, 387 N.J. Super. 112, 125 (App. Div. 2006). Initially, "the

judge must determine whether the plaintiff has proven, by a preponderance of

the credible evidence, that one or more of the predicate acts set forth in N.J.S.A.

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2C:25-19(a) has occurred." Ibid. (citing N.J.S.A. 2C:25-29(a)). The court must

make this determination "in light of the previous history of violence between the

parties." Id. at 125-26 (quoting Cesare, 154 N.J. at 402). Next, "upon a finding

of the commission of a predicate act of domestic violence, . . . [the court must

determine] whether [it] should enter a restraining order that provides protection

for the victim." Id. at 126. The guiding principle of this second inquiry is

"whether a restraining order i[s] necessary . . . to protect the victim from an

immediate danger or to prevent further abuse." Id. at 127 (citing N.J.S.A. 2C:25-

29(b)).

A.

The PDVA protects victims of domestic violence if they experience one

of various enumerated acts, including, as alleged here, harassment. See N.J.S.A.

2C:25-19(a)(13). Harassment is defined under N.J.S.A. 2C:33-4 in pertinent

part as follows:

[A] person commits a petty disorderly persons offense

if, with purpose to harass another, he [or she]:

a. Makes, or causes to be made, one or

more communications anonymously or at

extremely inconvenient hours, or in

offensively coarse language, or any other

manner likely to cause annoyance or alarm;

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....

c. Engages in any other course of alarming

conduct or of repeatedly committed acts

with purpose to alarm or seriously annoy

such other person.

An essential element of harassment, intent to harass, is often difficult to

prove by direct evidence, so "'purpose may and often must be inferred from what

is said and done and the surrounding circumstances[,]' and '[p]rior conduct and

statements may be relevant to and support an inference of purpose.'" R.G. v.

R.G., 449 N.J. Super. 208, 226 (App. Div. 2017) (alterations in original)

(quoting State v. Castagna, 387 N.J. Super. 598, 606 (App. Div. 2006)). "'A

finding of a purpose to harass may be inferred from the evidence presented' and

from common sense and experience." H.E.S. v. J.C.S., 175 N.J. 309, 327 (2003)

(quoting State v. Hoffman, 149 N.J. 564, 577 (1997)).

"[C]ourts must consider the totality of the circumstances to determine

whether the harassment statute has been violated." Cesare, 154 N.J. at 404

(citing Hoffman, 149 N.J. at 584-85). "This is particularly true in domestic

violence cases in which a cycle of violent behavior is evident." Hoffman, 149

N.J. at 585. Behavior that may not alarm or seriously annoy a non-victim of

domestic violence, "may [be] rightly view[ed] . . . as seriously annoying,

alarming, or threatening, or as all of those things" by some victims of domestic

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violence. Id. at 586.

Viewing the record in light of the applicable law, we discern no abuse of

discretion in the court's finding the predicate act of harassment. Its

determination rested on substantial, credible evidence that was properly

admitted into the record.

Having found credible plaintiff's description of the parties' history,

including the existence of an out-of-state no-contact order, the court deemed

defendant's repeated phone calls and text messages containing offensive and

alarming language were directed to plaintiff with a purpose to harass.

Specifically, the court determined that the communications were "likely to," and

did "cause annoyance or alarm." The court also found the phone calls, occurring

"one after the other, within minutes of one another," were "clearly" intended to

harass.

Defendant also claims the court erred as his statements were

constitutionally protected speech. Although "[v]ulgar name-calling alone is not

domestic violence," R.G., 449 N.J. Super. at 226, we are satisfied the court

considered the testimony and evidence and viewed the context and content of

the messages, calls, and wellness checks, in light of the parties' history, and

reasonably inferred an intent to harass, see Castagna, 387 N.J. Super. at 606

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(determining "purpose may and often must be inferred from what is said and

done and the surrounding circumstances"). We discern no error in that finding

under either N.J.S.A. 2C:33-4(a) or (c), and agree that defendant's statements

were, therefore, not immunized as protected free speech, and his words were

instead transformed to harassing communications by defendant's proven intent.

See State v. L.C., 283 N.J. Super. 441, 450 (App. Div. 1995) (recognizing

N.J.S.A. 2C:33-4 "does not proscribe mere speech, use of language, or other

forms of expression," if the purpose to harass is shown).

We similarly perceive no abuse of discretion in the court's evidentiary

rulings admitting those statements into evidence. Defendant's contention that

the messages were not authenticated and were "incomplete and one-sided," lacks

merit. The court admitted the evidence after it was authenticated by plaintiff's

testimony, and defendant conceded the authenticity of the text messages.

Defendant's challenge to the admission of the allegedly "incomplete"

message chain similarly fails. Indeed, under the rule of completeness, codified

in N.J.R.E. 106, a party may seek to admit the whole series of messages in

response to plaintiff's admission of only part of their communications. See

N.J.R.E. 106 ("If a party introduces all or part of a writing or recorded statement,

an adverse party may require the introduction, at that time, of any other part, or

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any other writing or recorded statement, that in fairness ought to be considered

at the same time."); see also State v. Lozada, 257 N.J. Super. 260, 270 (App.

Div. 1992) (the rule of completeness is implicated when "[t]he opponent, against

whom a part of an utterance has been put in, may in his turn complement it by

putting in the remainder, in order to secure for the tribunal a complete

understanding"). Other than generally claiming the messages were incomplete,

defendant offered no further messages or testimony to counter plaintiff's

messages.

Notably, the court also recognized "there was no cross-examination as to"

the document depicting defendant's "roughly [twenty-five] to [thirty]"

voicemails, a list it properly considered "extensive," in conjunction with

plaintiff's other evidence. The court therefore did not err in admitting the

evidence as supported by plaintiff's testimony.

B.

We likewise consider and reject defendant's claim that the court

improperly evaluated prong two of Silver and its relevant factors. See Silver,

387 N.J. Super. at 126. A non-exhaustive list of the factors is codified in

N.J.S.A. 2C:25-29(a).

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Here, the court expressly analyzed each factor and made findings

anchored in the record. It recognized and incorporated into its decision the

"extensive history of domestic violence between the parties[—]reported,

unreported, physical, non-physical, [and] verbal." It found defendant's wellness

check calls, voicemails and text messages constituted further attempts "to

harass . . . plaintiff, to gain control, [and] to let her know he [wa]s still there,"

characteristic of "coercive control." The court explained its finding that

defendant's incarceration did not minimize the risk of future harm, citing his

contacting her from within the facility and enlisting others to act on his behalf.

Its concern was not mitigated by the cessation of communications after plaintiff

blocked defendant's access, as the court appropriately considered plaintiff's

safety upon defendant's release. Thus, we perceive no basis to disturb the court's

finding plaintiff required protection from the parties' "abusive relationship, one

that the [PDVA] seeks to protect."

C.

Lastly, we need not address defendant's claim of ineffective assistance of

counsel in this civil matter, as claims of ineffective assistance of counsel apply

in criminal cases. See Strickland v. Washington, 466 U.S. 667 (1984).

Moreover, this issue was raised for the first time on appeal, without a record on

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which to properly evaluate it. See Nieder v. Royal Indem. Ins. Co., 62 N.J. 229,

234-35 (1973).

Affirmed.

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