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Shelley

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District Court, N.D. Oklahoma
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Jan 12, 2026
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IN THE UNITED STATES DISTRICT COURT

FOR THE NORTHERN DISTRICT OF OKLAHOMA

(1) TRACEY SHELLEY )

(2) RBH SALES, LLC, )

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Plaintiffs, )

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v. ) Case No. 25-CV-504-JFJ

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(1) HARTFORD UNDERWRITERS )

INSURANCE COMPANY, )

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Defendant. )

OPINION AND ORDER

Before the Court is Defendant Hartford Underwriters Insurance Company’s (“Hartford”)

Partial Motion to Dismiss (ECF No. 17). The parties have consented to a magistrate judge

presiding over the case (ECF No. 19). For reasons explained below, the Partial Motion to Dismiss

is granted, and Plaintiffs’ claim for intentional infliction of emotional distress (“IIED”) is

dismissed with prejudice.

I. Factual Background

The following relevant facts are alleged in the Complaint (ECF No. 2-1). Plaintiff Tracey

Shelley (“Shelley”) is the sole owner and managing member of Plaintiff RBH Sales, LLC (“RBH”)

(together, “Plaintiffs”). Compl. ¶ 2. At all relevant times, Shelley held an insurance policy written

by Hartford that insured her and RBH. Id. ¶¶ 15-16. RBH buys “hard-to-find” items and re-sells

them online, and part of RBH’s inventory was stored at Shelley’s home. Id. ¶¶ 7, 9. On August

27, 2022, a fire destroyed Shelley’s home and approximately one-fourth of RBH’s inventory. Id.

¶¶ 10-11. Immediately thereafter, Shelley opened a claim with Hartford under her insurance

policy. Id. ¶ 19. However, Hartford did not pay “the actual value of the inventory at the time of

loss (i.e., the estimated retail price).” Id. ¶ 20. Instead, it reimbursed Shelley for the purchase

price of the destroyed inventory. Id. Further, Hartford delayed in tendering the payment, which

forced Shelley to mitigate RBH’s business income losses herself by taking out loans to replenish

the lost inventory before the 2022 holiday season. Id. ¶¶ 21-22.

Hartford also delayed its consideration of Shelley’s lost business income claim, providing

its first valuation of RBH’s lost business income in December 2023, sixteen months after the fire.

Id. ¶¶ 25-26. Hartford’s eventual valuation found no loss in business income, which Shelley

believed was incorrect. Id. ¶¶ 27, 29. For at least the next two years, Shelley engaged in a series

of requests for reconsideration and explanation from Hartford. Id. ¶¶ 29, 33, 38, 40. She also

retained a forensic accounting and loss assessment firm to provide an independent valuation, in

hopes of persuading Hartford to increase its valuation. Id. ¶¶ 31-33. In response to her efforts,

Hartford increased its valuation three times. Id. ¶¶ 36, 39, 46. On other occasions, however,

Hartford responded with silence or requests for tax returns. Id. ¶¶ 29-30, 33-35. Shelley believed

Hartford’s amended valuations were too low, and she expended “considerable efforts” and made

“desperate attempts” to try and communicate her reasoning to Hartford. Id. ¶¶ 31, 40-41.

In one “desperate attempt to get someone at . . . Hartford to listen to her,” Shelley made a

social media post about her claim and how Hartford was handling it. Id. ¶ 41. In response, a

Hartford employee contacted Shelley on social media, asked her to send him a direct message, and

requested a phone call with her. Id. ¶¶ 42-43. Shelley agreed to the phone call because she

believed that it would lead to progress on her claim. Id. ¶ 43. “However, during the phone

conversation[,] [t]he Hartford[] agent/employee yelled and screamed at [Shelley], chastising and

admonishing her for complaining about the way her Claim had been handled . . . .” Id. ¶ 44. The

employee told Shelley that she received “excellent claim handling services” from Hartford and

that she needed to “take down her post immediately.” Id. The phone call left Shelley feeling

“threatened, hurt, and anxious,” made her believe that Hartford would take adverse action against

her claim, and caused her to suffer “pervasive anxiety.” Id. ¶¶ 45, 47.

On August 8th, 2025, Plaintiffs filed suit against Hartford in Tulsa County District Court,

asserting three causes of action: (1) breach of contract, (2) breach of the duty of good faith and fair

dealing (“bad faith”), and (3) IIED. ECF No. 2-1. Subsequently, Hartford properly removed the

case to federal court. Id.

II. Motion to Dismiss

On October 14th, 2025, Hartford filed its partial motion to dismiss, seeking dismissal of

Plaintiffs’ IIED claim under Federal Rule of Civil Procedure 12(b)(6) for failure to state a claim

for relief.

A. Rule 12(b)(6) Standard

In considering a Rule 12(b)(6) motion, the court must accept all well-pleaded allegations

of the complaint as true and must construe them in the light most favorable to the nonmoving party.

See Anderson v. Merrill Lynch Pierce Fenner & Smith, Inc., 521 F.3d 1278, 1284 (10th Cir. 2008).

A court must then determine whether these accepted facts state a facially “plausible” claim for

relief. Ashcroft v. Iqbal, 556 U.S. 662, 678 (2009).

A claim has facial plausibility when the plaintiff pleads factual content that allows

the court to draw the reasonable inference that the defendant is liable for the

misconduct alleged. The plausibility standard is not akin to a probability

requirement, but it asks for more than a sheer possibility that a defendant has acted

unlawfully. Where a complaint pleads facts that are merely consistent with a

defendant’s liability, it stops short of the line between possibility and plausibility

of entitlement to relief.

Id. (internal quotations omitted). “A pleading that offers labels and conclusions or a formulaic

recitation of the elements of a cause of action will not do. Nor does a complaint suffice if it tenders

naked assertions devoid of further factual enhancement.” Id. at 678 (citation modified).

B. IIED Claim

“Under Oklahoma law, the elements of an IIED claim are: (1) the defendant acted

intentionally or recklessly; (2) the defendant’s conduct was extreme and outrageous; (3) the

defendant’s conduct caused the plaintiff emotional distress; and (4) the resulting emotional distress

was severe.” Mengert v. United States, 120 F.4th 696, 712 (10th Cir. 2024) (quoting Comput.

Publ’ns, Inc. v. Welton, 49 P.3d 732, 735 (Okla. 2002)).1 “The trial court acts as a gatekeeper

regarding the outrageousness of the defendant’s conduct and the severity of the plaintiff’s

distress.” Comput. Publ’ns, Inc., 49 P.3d at 735.

Hartford argues: (1) Plaintiffs have not plausibly alleged extreme and outrageous conduct;

and (2) Plaintiffs have not plausibly alleged severe emotional distress.

1. Plaintiffs Have Not Alleged Extreme and Outrageous Conduct

Regarding the second element of an IIED claim, “[l]iability has been found only where the

conduct has been so outrageous in character, and so extreme in degree, as to go beyond all possible

bounds of decency, and to be regarded as atrocious and utterly intolerable in a civilized

community.” Breeden v. League Servs. Corp., 575 P.2d 1374, 1376 (Okla. 1978) (quoting

Restatement (Second) § 46 cmt. d). “Conduct which, though unreasonable, is neither beyond all

possible bounds of decency in the setting in which it occurred, nor is one that can be regarded as

utterly intolerable in a civilized community, falls short of having actionable quality.” Eddy v.

Brown, 715 P.2d 74, 77 (Okla. 1986) (citation modified). Conduct is not deemed extreme and

outrageous “if it amounts to no more than mere insults, indignities, or petty oppressions.” Daemi

1 Because this is a diversity action, Oklahoma substantive law applies to Plaintiffs’ state-law IIED

claim. Yaffe Cos., Inc. v. Great Am. Ins. Co., 499 F.3d 1182, 1185 (10th Cir. 2007); Barrett v.

Tallon, 30 F.3d 1296, 1300 (10th Cir. 1994) (“A federal court sitting in diversity applies the

substantive law . . . of the forum state.”).

v. Church’s Fried Chicken, Inc., 931 F.2d 1379, 1388 (10th Cir. 1991). In making this

determination, the court must “focus on the totality of the circumstances, including the nature of

the conduct and setting in which it occurred.” Starr v. Pearle Vision, Inc., 54 F.3d 1548, 1559

(10th Cir. 1995).

In the Complaint, Plaintiffs summarized Hartford’s alleged extreme conduct as follows:

(1) Hartford held a position of significant power and influence over Plaintiffs’ financial stability;

(2) Hartford’s agent/employee exploited that position of power by initiating direct contract with

Shelley under the guise of assisting with her claim, after Shelley made a social media post critical

of Hartford; (3) the Hartford employee “berated her, yelled at her, and chastised her for voicing

concerns”; directed her to remove her public statement; and attempted to silence her and deprive

her of “leverage” against Hartford’s delays and undervaluation of her claim. ECF No. 2 at ¶¶ 62-

63. In the response brief, Plaintiffs also focused on the call initiated by Hartford to Shelley

regarding her social media post:

Plaintiff alleges that she was screamed at on the phone by an employee of the

Hartford after making a public comment about the Hartford’s customer service. The

employee approached Plaintiff publicly, in a way that made her believe he wanted

to help her, convincing her to get on a phone call in the first place. The employee

then yelled and screamed at the Plaintiff, chastising her for complaining publicly

about the Hartford, told her she had nothing to complain about, and ordered her to

take down her social media post immediately. Plaintiff felt embarrassed,

threatened, hurt, anxious, harassed, and devastated as a result of the unexpected

berating.

ECF No. 20 at 7. Plaintiffs emphasized that the IIED claim is not based on the same allegations

as the bad-faith claim. Id. at 10 (arguing that bad-faith claim “is based on Hartford’s unreasonable

investigation and evaluation of her claim,” while the IIED claim “is based on the conduct of its

public relations and/or customer service department contacting her and screaming at her in

response to a public comment critical of the Hartford”).2

Based on these allegations and arguments, the issue is whether the Hartford employee’s

conduct of initiating a chastising and berating phone call to Shelley after she made a critical social

media post about Hartford, and then directing her to remove the post, may reasonably be

considered extreme and outrageous conduct for purposes of an IIED claim. In deciding this issue,

the Court considers the overall context of an ongoing property claim dispute with Hartford that

has allegedly caused Plaintiffs severe financial and business hardship.

Plaintiff cannot state a claim for relief as to the second element. The Oklahoma Supreme

Court’s leading case on IIED is instructive. In that case, the defendant collection companies had

mailed three letters to the plaintiff at her home address; mailed three letters to the plaintiff at her

place of employment; made sixteen attempts to contact plaintiff by telephone, both at home and at

her place of employment; and had one telephone conversation with the plaintiff during reasonable

hours, where the company representative called the plaintiff “a God damned liar and deadbeat.”

See Breeden, 575 P.2d at 1378. The court affirmed the grant of summary judgment in favor of the

collection companies because “the number of calls and letters were not excessive, nor were the

calls made at unreasonable times, nor was the inconsiderate language so outrageous or extreme as

to give rise to liability.” Id. Similarly here, Plaintiffs allege that a Hartford employee initiated a

2 Plaintiffs have alleged conduct beyond merely delaying or wrongfully failing to pay an insurance

claim. Cf. Armstrong v. Health Care Serv. Corp., No. 22-CV-377, 2023 WL 359519, at *5 (N.D.

Okla. Jan. 23, 2023) (dismissing plaintiff’s IIED claim because “[t]he denial of an insurance claim

is an ordinary part of the relationship between an insurer and insured”); Hightower v. USAA Cas.

Ins. Co., No. 16–CV–274, 2017 WL 1347689, at *4 (N.D. Okla. Apr. 7, 2017) (dismissing IIED

claim because the allegation that insured “failed to pay them the full amount under their insurance

policy does not rise to the level of extreme conduct required under Oklahoma law”). The Court’s

ruling is based on analysis of the additional, specific conduct alleged, which includes harassing

and berating conduct during a phone call initiated by a Hartford employee.

harassing and berating phone call to an adult insured during an ongoing insurance dispute. The

call occurred on one occasion, it was during normal hours, and there is no allegation that the

Hartford employee used insults or slurs. The facts alleged are similar to or less severe than facts

presented in Breeden and do not support an IIED claim. The facts are also distinguishable from

cases in which belittling or harassing language is directed at a minor. See Durham v. McDonald’s

Rests. of Okla., Inc., 256 P.3d 64, 67-68 (10th Cir. 2011) (holding that reasonable jury could decide

that supervisor’s one time use of a curse word and a slur was extreme and outrageous when directed

to minor plaintiff); Stepp v. Talihina Pub. Sch. Dist., No. 6:24-cv-146, 2025 WL 1139471, at *9-

10 (E.D. Okla. 2025) (holding that teacher’s sustained use of “derogatory language, homophobic

slurs, and belittling tactics” toward eleven year old student plausibly alleged extreme and

outrageous conduct).

The Hartford employee’s instruction to remove the post, even if designed to intimidate

Shelley as an insured, was not accompanied by physical threats or any type of ongoing, harassing

conduct. This single instruction from the Hartford employee during an isolated phone call, even

if an unsavory and unprofessional business tactic, also cannot be deemed “extreme or outrageous

conduct” directed to an insured. See Thompson v. State Farm Fire & Cas. Co., 34 F.3d 932, 942

(10th Cir. 1994) (affirming grant of judgment as a matter of law in favor of insurer on IIED claim,

where insurer, inter alia, advised plaintiff not to hire a lawyer, continually asked for more

information, failed to return calls and keep appointments, and purposefully prolonged the claims

process) (“While State Farm may have exhibited a lack of tender solicitude for [the plaintiffs],

clearly its conduct did not amount to the type of harassment and threats that could be considered

extreme and outrageous.”); Setzer v. Farmers Ins. Co., 185 F. App’x 748, 755 (10th Cir. 2006)

(holding that defendant’s request for plaintiff’s gynecological records outside of her authorization

was “sloppy[,] or even intimidating[,]” but was not sufficiently outrageous in the context of claims

handling); Schultz v. Allstate Ins. Co., 764 F. Supp. 1404, 1411 (D. Colo. 1991) (applying Colorado

law) (holding that where an insurer misrepresented its coverage, delayed communication and

payment, and denied and undervalued claims, and one of the insurer’s agents was “repeatedly very

nasty” to the plaintiffs, there was not, as a matter of law, outrageous conduct).

Plaintiffs’ cited cases are unpersuasive. Plaintiffs rely on Johnson v. State Farm Fire &

Cas. Co., No. 19-CV-250, 2019 WL 5388521, at *5 (N.D. Okla. Oct. 22, 2019), in which the court

denied a motion to dismiss an IIED claim against an insured. In that case, the insureds alleged that

an insurance company employee “repeatedly berated, belittled[,] and chastised them throughout

the claim process.” Id. at *4 (emphasis added). The insureds further alleged that the insurance

company employee accused them of lying in order to “oppress” them. Id. The employee

ultimately threatened to “take back monies already paid” if the insureds did not accept the claim

evaluation. Id. Plaintiffs also rely on Computer Publications, Inc. v. Welton, 49 P.3d 732 (Okla.

2002). In that case, the plaintiff produced evidence that the defendant, her previous employer/boss

with whom she had an intimate relationship, “harassed” her “virtually non-stop” for two years. Id.

at 736. The defendant had engaged in a variety of consistent harassing behaviors, such as calling

her landline and cellphones, leaving voicemails, sending e-mails, mailing letters, and sending

flowers and gifts to persuade the plaintiff to resume working for him and engaging in a

relationship. Id. Further, the defendant went to the plaintiff’s new workplace to put letters in her

car, drove slowly past her house, and showed up at restaurants where she was eating. Id. The

court held that the plaintiff produced sufficient evidence of extreme and outrageous conduct to

warrant submission of her IIED claim to the jury. Id.

Here, the facts do not involve any similar pattern of harassment or oppression but instead

involve harassing behavior during an isolated phone call. Although Plaintiffs allege that Hartford

wrongfully undervalued and underpaid their claims over an extended time, they do not allege any

repeated harassing or verbally abusive conduct during the claims-handling process such as that

alleged in Johnson or Computer Publications. Instead, Plaintiffs primarily complain that Hartford

engaged in delay and took no actions during this extended time. Considering the totality of

circumstances, the conduct cannot be deemed a sustained or persistent campaign to cause Plaintiff

distress. See Starr, 54 F.3d at n.7 (contrasting “episodic” events in that case with the “sustained,

persistent, and orchestrated campaign to embarrass and humiliate the plaintiff” in other cases

where courts permitted IIED claims to proceed). Further, while Plaintiffs allege the Hartford

employee implied negative consequences for failing to remove the post, this is far less outrageous

or severe than an explicit threat to take back money already paid to an insured. The isolated phone

call, even in conjunction with the alleged bad-faith claims handling, is not sufficient to support an

IIED claim.

2. Plaintiff Has Not Alleged Severe Emotional Distress

The fourth element of an IIED claim “requires proof that the emotional distress suffered

by the plaintiff was so severe that no reasonable person could be expected to endure it.” Comput.

Publ’ns, Inc., 49 P.3d at 736 (quoting Breeden, 575 P.2d at 1377-78 n.6) (citation modified). “The

law intervenes only where the distress inflicted is so severe that no reasonable man could be

expected to endure it. The intensity and the duration of the distress are factors to be considered in

determining its severity.” Mengert, 120 F.4th at 712 (quoting Restatement (Second) of Torts § 46

cmt. j). “[F]actors for determining whether emotional distress is sufficiently severe include:

whether the plaintiff experienced physical symptoms as a result of the distress; whether the

plaintiff sought medical attention for either physical symptoms or the emotional distress itself; and

whether the distress caused a disruption to the plaintiff's daily affairs.” Id. at 713.

Here, Plaintiffs allege that Shelley felt “threatened, hurt, and anxious,” and “believed [the

phone call] would result in . . . Hartford taking adverse action against her in its handling of her

[c]laim.” Compl. ¶ 45. As an initial matter, Shelley’s alleged distress resulted from an isolated

phone call, which weighs against a finding of severe emotional distress. See Morales v. L. Firm

of Michael W. McDivitt, P.C., 641 F. Supp. 3d 1035, 1040 (D. Colo. 2022) (applying Colorado

law) (“There is far less risk of emotional distress occurring over the phone than in person.”).

Further, Plaintiffs did not allege any facts supporting the last two relevant factors – namely, that

Shelley sought medical attention or that emotional distress disrupted her daily affairs. Although

not dispositive, this contributes to the Court’s finding that Plaintiffs cannot prove the fourth

element of an IIED claim. See Doe 1 v. Mount Saint Mary High Sch. Corp. of the State of Okla.,

No. CIV-22-992, 2025 WL 490011, at *9 (W.D. Okla. Feb. 13, 2025) (dismissing six of the eight

plaintiffs’ IIED claims because those plaintiffs’ allegations that they felt shame, embarrassment,

and unsafe did not plausibly allege severe emotional distress); Morris v. City of Sapulpa, No. 19-

CV-0376, 2011 WL 1627098, at *15 (N.D. Okla. Apr. 28, 2011) (granting summary judgment to

defendant and explaining that being “anxious, mildly agitated, depressed, [and] apprehensive”

cannot establish severe emotional distress). Cf. Doe 1, 2025 WL 490011, at *9 (holding that two

plaintiffs who made allegations such as “panic attacks and night terrors,” “seeking therapy,”

suffering grades, transferring schools, becoming isolated, and losing friendships plausibly alleged

severe emotional distress); Comput. Publ’ns, 49 P.3d at 736-37 (evidence that plaintiff lost weight,

developed rashes, and was scared daily was sufficient to warrant submission of IIED claim to

jury); Durham, 256 P.3d at 68 (evidence that plaintiff became withdrawn, reclusive, depressed,

and slept all day was sufficient to reach jury on IIED claim).

III. Conclusion

Defendant Hartford Underwriters Insurance Company’s Partial Motion to Dismiss (ECF

No. 17) is GRANTED.3 Plaintiffs Tracey Shelley and RBH Sales, LLC’s IIED claim (Count III)

against Hartford is DISMISSED WITH PREJUDICE pursuant to Federal Rule of Civil

Procedure 12(b)(6).

SO ORDERED this 12th day of January 2026.

3 Hartford requests that the Court deny Plaintiffs’ leave to amend their Complaint. Plaintiffs have

not requested leave to amend, and the Court need not address Hartford’s request.

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