# Deborah E. Lamkin v. Corrie L. Lamkin

> Supreme Judicial Court of Maine · June 12, 2018 · 2018 ME 76

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## Case

- **Court:** Supreme Judicial Court of Maine
- **Decided:** June 12, 2018
- **Citations:** 2018 ME 76
- **Precedential status:** Published
- **Opinion:** Opinion
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## Opinion text

MAINE	SUPREME	JUDICIAL	COURT Reporter	of	Decisions
Decision: 2018	ME	76
Docket: Cum-17-310
Argued: February	15,	2018
Decided: June	12,	2018

Panel: SAUFLEY,	C.J.,	and	ALEXANDER,	MEAD,	GORMAN,	JABAR,	HJELM,	and	HUMPHREY,	JJ.
Majority: SAUFLEY,	C.J.,	and	ALEXANDER,	MEAD,	GORMAN,	HJELM,	and	HUMPHREY,	JJ.
Dissent: JABAR,	J.

DEBORAH	E.	LAMKIN

v.

CORRIE	L.	LAMKIN

HJELM,	J.

[¶1] Deborah	E.	Lamkin	appeals	from	a	judgment	entered	by	the	District

Court (Portland, J. French, J.) concluding that she did not have standing to

pursue a claim for visitation rights with her grandchild pursuant to the

Grandparents	Visitation	Act	(GVA),	19-A	M.R.S.	§§	1801-1805	(2017),	and,	on

that	basis,	dismissing	her	petition. On	appeal,	Deborah	contends	that	the	court

erred in its standing determination. Because Deborah failed to demonstrate

standing to proceed either pursuant to the GVA or as a putative de facto

parent—a claim that is suggested in some of Deborah’s filings and that she

presses	on	appeal—we	affirm	the	judgment.
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I. BACKGROUND

[¶2] The	following	facts	are	drawn	from	the	procedural	record	and	the

court’s	findings,	which	are	supported	by	the	record. See	Philbrook	v.	Theriault,

2008	ME	152,	¶	2,	957	A.2d	74.

[¶3] Deborah E. Lamkin is the mother of Corrie L. Lamkin and the

grandmother	of	the	child	at	issue	here. Corrie	gave	birth	to	the	child	in	2008.

For the two years following the child’s birth, Corrie and her child lived with

Deborah and Deborah’s husband until Corrie and the child moved into their

own home. After Corrie and the child moved, Deborah had contact with the

child “several days per week,” including “almost every weekend.” After the

child entered daycare, Deborah cared for him two days per week. Once the

child	started	school,	on	Wednesdays,	Deborah	met	him	when	he	got	off	the	bus,

and he stayed for dinner at her house. That pattern continued until

December	of 2016, when Corrie became involved in a relationship with her

current	boyfriend,	who	causes	Deborah	concern	because	he	is	a	registered	sex

offender.

[¶4] On June 2, 2017, Deborah filed a petition, accompanied by an

affidavit, see 19-A M.R.S. § 1803(2)(A), to “establish grandparent’s rights”

pursuant	to	the	GVA,	seeking	“specific	rights	of	visitation,	contact,	etc.,	and/or
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.	.	.	primary	physical	residence”	of	the	child.1 In	addition	to	reciting	many	of	the

facts	noted	above,	which	were	later	addressed	in	the	judgment,	Deborah	stated

in	her	affidavit	that	in	February	of	2017,	Corrie	left	the	child	with	her	for	five

days	while	Corrie	visited	Florida,	and	later	that	month,	both	Corrie	and	the	child

stayed	at	Deborah’s	residence	for	three	weeks	after	Deborah’s	husband	died.

Deborah	also	alleged	that	since	March	of	2017,	Corrie	has	prevented	her	from

having	contact	with	the	child. She	concluded	her	affidavit	as	follows:

I feel that [the boyfriend] is not a good influence on my
daughter,	and	may	present	a	safety	hazard	for	[the	child]. I	feel	it
is	in	[the	child’s]	best	interest	to	have	specific	rights	of	contact	and
visitation with me, at specific times and dates, and/or for [the
child’s]	primary	physical	residence	to	be	with	me.

[¶5] In	response,	Corrie	filed	a	motion	to	dismiss	for	lack	of	standing. As

allowed	by	statute,	see	19-A	M.R.S.	§	1803(2)(B),	Corrie	also	filed	an	affidavit	in

which	she	stated,	among	other	things,	that	since	the	child	was	three	months	old,

he has been consistently enrolled in daycare or afterschool care and that

Deborah	has	never	provided	or	offered	to	provide	full-time	care	for	the	child;

1 Deborah’s petition named Corrie and the person believed to be the child’s father as the
respondents. In	the	affidavit	filed	with	her	petition,	Deborah	stated	that	the	putative	father	did	not
believe	that	the	child	was	his	and	has	had	little	or	no	contact	with	Corrie	or	the	child. The	record
does	not	indicate	that	the	putative	father	was	served,	and	he	has	not	participated	in	this	proceeding.
Title	19-A	M.R.S.	§	1803(2)(A)	(2017)	requires	that	a	GVA	petition	and	accompanying	affidavits	need
only	be	served	on	one	of	the	parents	or	legal	guardians	of	the	child. Here,	Corrie	accepted	service	of
the	petition,	which	allowed	the	matter	to	proceed.
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that	the	boyfriend’s	conviction	was	based	on	electronic	sexual	communications

with	a	teenage	girl;	that	Corrie	has	attended	some	of	her	boyfriend’s	therapy

sessions	so	she	could	learn	of	anything	needed	for	the	child’s	safety;	that	the

boyfriend’s	probation	officer	has	approved	of	the	boyfriend’s	contact	with	the

child;	that,	at	Corrie’s	request,	the	probation	officer	notified	the	Department	of

Health	and	Human	Services	of	Corrie’s	relationship	with	the	boyfriend	“to	make

sure	we	had	proper	approval	from	every	possible	angle	and	that	we	were	above

board,”	and	that	the	Department	chose	not	to	investigate	or	become	involved

in	the	matter;	that,	at	an	activity	the	child	regularly	attends,	Deborah	has	had

contact with him against Corrie’s wishes; and that Deborah is attempting to

control	Corrie’s	parenting	of	the	child,	which	Deborah	has	done	throughout	the

child’s	life.

[¶6] Two	days	after	Corrie	filed	her	motion	to	dismiss	Deborah’s	petition,

the court granted the motion. The court’s order set out the factual findings

described above.2 The court then analyzed the information in the parties’

affidavits	in	terms	of	the	legal	standards	governing	de	facto	parenthood	cases,

see	19-A	M.R.S.	§	1891(2),	(3)	(2017),	and	found	that	Deborah	had	not	provided

2 With respect to	the boyfriend,	the court found	that	Corrie has addressed	any concerns by—

among other things—maintaining continuous contact with the boyfriend’s probation officer and
therapist,	and	by	complying	with	restrictions	they	imposed.
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“consistent caretaking” of the child; that Corrie had not “understood,

acknowledged	or	accepted	that	or	behaved	as	though	[Deborah]	is	a	parent	of

the child”; and that Deborah had not “accepted full and permanent

responsibilities	as	a	parent	of	[the	child],”	id.	§	1891(3)(B)-(D). On	that	basis,

the court concluded that Deborah had not established standing because she

failed	to	make	a	“prima	facie	showing	of	de	facto	parentage	as	required	.	.	.	under

the	Grandparents	Visitation	Act”	to	proceed	on	her	petition. (Italics	omitted.)

[¶7] Deborah	filed	a	“Motion	to	Reconsider/or	for	Hearing”	in	which	she

asserted that her relationship with the child rises to the level of a de facto

parent and is “substantially greater than that of a normal and involved

grandparent.”3 Deborah	also	filed	another	affidavit,	in	which	she	requested	that

the	court	hold	an	evidentiary	hearing	where	she	would	present	the	testimony

3 As	another	ground	stated	in	the	motion	and	argued	on	appeal,	Deborah	contends	that	she	was

not given the twenty-one days allowed by rule to respond to Corrie’s motion to dismiss. See
M.R.	Civ.	P. 7(c)(2). Even if the court acted on Corrie’s motion prematurely, that error is of no
moment	because	the	court	issued	another	order	after	fully	considering	the	additional	argument	and
factual	assertions	that	Deborah	submitted	in	her	motion	for	reconsideration. If	anything,	that	process
gave	Deborah	a	particular	advantage	because,	in	the	end,	she	was	able	to	respond	with	knowledge	of
the	deficiencies	in	her	standing	presentation	that	the	court	described	in	its	initial	order. See	M.R.
Civ.	P.	61	(harmless	error	standard).

In fact, the court acted	with commendable expediency in	acting on Corrie’s motion to dismiss.
Because	of	the	disruptive	effect	of	a	third-party	proceeding	on	a	parent-child	relationship,	see,	e.g.,
Rideout	v.	Riendeau,	2000	ME	198,	¶¶	29-32,	761	A.2d	291,	speedy	resolution	is	of	importance	to	the
parties	and,	even	more	so,	to	the	child	who	may	be	affected	by	the	case. Here,	the	court	acted	with
dispatch	but	in	a	way	that	allowed	Deborah	to	be	fully	and	fairly	heard.
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of third-party witnesses “who would verify [her] role as a de facto parent to

[the	child].”4 In	the	affidavit,	Deborah	stated,	among	other	things,	that	she	had

encouraged Corrie to enroll the child in daycare so that Corrie would be

financially	responsible	for	the	child	and	the	child	would	have	interaction	with

others	of	his	age;	that	Corrie	“broke	off	communication”	between	Deborah	and

the	child,	but	Deborah	continued	to	see	the	child	at	activities	where	Corrie	was

also present and therefore knew that Deborah was present; that Corrie

provided Deborah’s contact information to third parties to be used in an

emergency;	and	that	Corrie	has	consulted	Deborah	on	parenting	issues.

[¶8] The	court	denied	Deborah’s	motion,	concluding	that,	even	with	the

additional	submissions,	see	supra	n.3,	she	had	not	demonstrated	standing	and

that a hearing was unnecessary because the body of facts set forth in her

various	affidavits	“fail	to	establish	the	elements	of	de	facto	parenthood	required

under Maine law.” Deborah timely appealed to us. See 14	M.R.S. § 1901(1)

(2017);	19-A	M.R.S.	§	104	(2017);	M.R.	App.	P.	2(b)(3)	(Tower	2016).5

4 Elsewhere in the motion, and contrary to one form of relief she requested in her petition,

Deborah	stated	that	she	was	not	seeking	primary	physical	residence	of	the	child	but	rather	specific
rights	of	contact.

5 The	restyled	Maine	Rules	of	Appellate	Procedure do	not	apply	because	this	appeal	was	filed

before	September	1,	2017. See	M.R.	App.	P.	1	(restyled	Rules).
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II. DISCUSSION

[¶9] Deborah	argues	on	appeal	that	the	court	erred	by	dismissing	her

petition based on its determination that she failed to establish standing.

Deborah’s petition stated that it was predicated on the GVA, but, as we have

noted above, see supra ¶¶ 4, 7, her submissions to the court also introduced

concepts	that	are	specific	to	the	law	of	de	facto	parenthood.6 The	court	made

its standing determination pursuant to the de facto parentage framework

prescribed	in	the	Maine	Parentage	Act	(MPA),	see	19-A	M.R.S.	§	1891(3). We

conclude	that,	as	a	matter	of	law,	when	the	substance	of	Deborah’s	petition	is

viewed	solely	as	one	to	establish	rights	pursuant	to	the	GVA	itself,	the	evidence

in	the	record	is	insufficient	to	demonstrate	that	Deborah	has	standing. Further,

to the extent that Deborah’s claim is viewed as one to establish de facto

parenthood,	she	has	not	demonstrated	standing	not	only	because—as	the	court

concluded—the information in the record did not satisfy all of the statutory

standing elements, but also because her failure to demonstrate standing

6 These	include	the	assertion	in	the	originating	petition	that	she	was	seeking	primary	physical

residence	of	the	child—something	that	goes	well	beyond	“reasonable	rights	of	visitation	or	access”
that	are	available	in	a	GVA	proceeding,	see	19-A	M.R.S.	§	1803	(2017)—and	explicit	statements	of
de	facto	parenthood	in	later	submissions.
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pursuant to the GVA necessarily means that she cannot meet the greater

standing	requirements	governing	de	facto	parenthood	cases.

[¶10] We	examine	the	legal	aspects	of	a	court’s	standing	determination

de	novo and review for clear error the factual findings underlying that

determination. See	19-A	M.R.S.	§§	1803(2),	1891(2);	Philbrook,	2008	ME	152,

¶	21,	957	A.2d	74	(citing	Bissias	v.	Koulovatos,	2000	ME	189,	¶	6,	761	A.2d	47

(stating	that	the	issue	of	standing presents	a	mixed	question	of	law and	fact,

where	the	“underlying	historical	facts”	on	which	a	court	“based	its	finding	of

standing are reviewed for clear error” and legal questions are reviewed

de	novo));	see	also	Desmond	v.	Desmond,	2011	ME	57,	¶	5,	17	A.3d	1234	(stating

that	where	“there	was	no	request	for	findings	following	the	court’s	entry	of	its

judgment,	we	infer	any	findings	necessary	to	support	the	result	.	.	.	as	long	as

those	findings	are	supported	by	the	record”	(citing	M.R.	Civ.	P.	52)).

A. Standing	Principles	in	GVA	and	De	Facto	Parenthood	Cases

[¶11] In	its	judgment,	the	court	equated	the	standing	requirements	in	a

GVA proceeding with those applicable to a de facto parenthood case. As we

explain	below,	however,	there	can	be a material	difference	between	the	two.

Accordingly, before addressing how those standards apply to Deborah’s
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petition, we consider the relationship between the statutory principles of

standing	in	GVA	and	de	facto	parenthood	proceedings.

[¶12] A	third	party’s	action	to	establish	rights	regarding	someone	else’s

child interferes with the parent’s fundamental right to raise that child and

decide	with	whom,	and	under	what	circumstances,	the	child	may	have	contact.

See Rideout v. Riendeau, 2000 ME 198, ¶ 30, 761 A.2d 291; see also Troxel v.

Granville,	530	U.S.	57,	65	(2000)	(stating	that	“the	interest	of	parents	in	the	care,

custody,	and	control	of	their	children—is	perhaps	the	oldest	of	the	fundamental

liberty	interests”);	Curtis	v.	Medeiros,	2016	ME	180,	¶	13,	152	A.3d	605;	Eaton

v.	Paradis,	2014	ME	61,	¶	8,	91	A.3d	590. Consequently,	whether	a	grandparent

seeks	to	establish	rights	of	contact	with	a	grandchild	pursuant	to	the	GVA,	or	a

third	party—who	could	be	a	grandparent,	see,	e.g.,	Philbrook,	2008	ME	152,	¶	7,

957 A.2d 74—seeks an adjudication of de facto parenthood, that petitioner

must	prove	that	he	or	she	has	standing	to	proceed	to	a	plenary	hearing	on	the

requested relief. This common requirement is well-established both in our
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decisional	authority7	and	in	statute,8	and constitutes	a	safeguard	designed	to

prevent unjustified interference with the fundamental rights inherent in a

parent-child	relationship,	while	also	allowing	an	adjudication	of	any	legitimate

interests of third parties that would affect that relationship. See Eaton,

2014	ME 61, ¶ 8, 91 A.3d 590 (discussing the purpose of the standing

requirement	in de	facto	parenthood	cases);	Rideout, 2000 ME 198,	¶¶	30-32,

761 A.2d 291 (discussing the purpose of the standing requirement in GVA

cases). We	review	in	turn	the	elements	of	standing	necessary	to	proceed	to	a

plenary	hearing	in	de	facto	parenthood	and	GVA	cases.

[¶13] To	establish	standing	to	proceed	in	a	de	facto	parenthood	case,	the

petitioner	must	prove,	by	a	preponderance	of	the	evidence,	see	Davis	v.	McGuire,

2018 ME 72, ¶¶ 19, 26, --- A.3d ---, the same elements that the petitioner

ultimately	would	be	required	to	prove by	clear and	convincing	evidence at a

7 Compare	Dorr	v.	Woodard,	2016	ME	79,	¶	14,	140	A.3d	467	(stating	that	pursuant	to	statute	in	a

GVA	case,	standing	must	be	satisfied	“before	litigation	may	commence”),	and	Robichaud	v.	Pariseau,
2003 ME 54, ¶ 8, 820 A.2d 1212 (characterizing the GVA standing requirement as “the first
safeguard” against unduly burdening parents’ fundamental rights), with Philbrook v. Theriault,
2008	ME	152,	¶	19,	957	A.2d	74	(stating	that	on	a	petition	for	de	facto	parenthood,	the	petitioner
must	satisfy	the	standing	requirement	“before	a	parent	can	be	required	to	fully	litigate	the	issue”),
and	Davis	v.	Anderson,	2008	ME	125,	¶	17,	953	A.2d	1166	(same).

8 Compare 19-A M.R.S. § 1803(1), (2) (GVA), with 19-A M.R.S. § 1891(2) (2017) (de facto

parentage).
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plenary hearing for a determination of de facto parenthood status, see

19-A	M.R.S.	§	1891(2)(C),	(3). Those	elements	comprise	the	following:

A.	The	person	has	resided	with	the	child	for	a	significant	period	of
time;

B.	The	person	has	engaged	in	consistent	caretaking	of	the	child;

C. A bonded and dependent relationship has been established
between	the	child	and	the	person,	the	relationship	was	fostered	or
supported	by	another	parent	of	the	child	and	the	person	and	the
other	parent	have	understood,	acknowledged	or	accepted	that	or
behaved	as	though	the	person	is	a	parent	of	the	child;

D.	The	person	has	accepted	full	and	permanent	responsibilities	as
a	parent	of	the	child	without	expectation	of	financial	compensation;
and

E.	The	continuing	relationship	between	the	person	and	the	child	is
in	the	best	interest	of	the	child.

Id. § 1891(3). These are the features that, when viewed collectively, the

Legislature	has	determined	to	constitute	the	essence	of	a	de	facto	parent-child

relationship—namely, that the putative de facto parent “has fully and

completely	undertaken	a	permanent,	unequivocal,	committed	and	responsible

parental	role	in	the	child’s	life.”9 Id.

9 In a recent opinion, we noted the differences between the elements of de facto parentage

articulated	in	19-A	M.R.S.	§	1891	(2017)	and	in	our	case	law	that	predated	the	enactment	of	that
statute. See	Davis	v.	McGuire,	2018	ME	72,	¶	15	n.7,	---	A.3d	---. In	this	case,	as	was	true	in	Davis,	we
need	not	determine	whether	those	statutory	elements	are	a	constitutionally	sufficient	basis	for	the
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[¶14] In	contrast	to	the	standing	requirement	in	a	de	facto	parenthood

case,	a	grandparent	who	brings	a	claim	pursuant	to	the	GVA	must	demonstrate

standing by showing either a “sufficient existing relationship” with the

grandchild,	or	a	“sufficient	effort	to	establish”	a	sufficient	existing	relationship

with the grandchild. 19-A M.R.S. § 1803(1)(B), (C).10 The first of these two

formulations,	set	out	in	section	1803(1)(B),	is	at	issue	here. We	have	held	that

the “substantial relationship” criterion set out in section 1803(1)(B) can be

applied	constitutionally	only	when	“the	most	urgent	reasons”	are	present	as	the

compelling state interest that is constitutionally required to justify

governmental	interference	with	the	“natural	right	of	a	parent	to	the	care	and

control	of	a	child.” Rideout,	2000	ME	198,	¶	24,	761	A.2d	291	(quotation	marks

omitted);	see	also	Robichaud	v.	Pariseau,	2003	ME	54,	¶	8,	820	A.2d	1212.

state	to	interfere	with	the	parental	rights	of	Corrie—a	fit	parent—because	Deborah	has	not	satisfied
even	the	statutory	elements	of	standing	to	pursue	a	de	facto	parenthood	claim.

10 Although	not	applicable	in	this	case,	section	1803(1)	continues	to	state	that	a	grandparent	also

may	acquire	visitation	rights	with	a	grandchild	in	a	third	situation,	namely,	when	at	least	one	of	the
child’s	parents	or	legal	guardians	has	died. 19-A	M.R.S.	§	1803(1)(A). We	have	held,	however,	that
the	death	of	one	parent	is	not	a	sufficiently	compelling	basis	for	a	court	to	interfere	with	the	surviving
parent’s	rights	to	the	child. Conlogue	v.	Conlogue,	2006	ME	12,	¶¶	18,	22,	890	A.2d	691.

We	also	note	that	if	a	grandparent	meets	the	standing	prerequisite	pursuant	to	the	GVA,	then	at
the resulting plenary hearing a court will be called upon to determine if the grandparent’s
“reasonable	rights	of	visitation	or	access”	to	the	child	is	in	the	child’s	best	interest	and	whether	any
visitation	or	access	would	not	“significantly	interfere	with	any	parent-child	relationship	or	with	the
parent’s	rightful	authority	over	the	child.” 19-A	M.R.S.	§	1803(3). This	means	that,	unlike	in	a	de	facto
parenthood	case,	there	is	a	lack	of	symmetry	between	the	elements	of	standing	to	proceed	with	a
GVA	petition	and	the	elements	of	proof	at	a	plenary	hearing. Compare	19-A	M.R.S.	§	1803(1),	(3),
with	id.	§	1891(2),	(3).
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[¶15] In	a	GVA	case,	the	“urgent	reason”	that	must	be	present	to	establish

standing includes a situation where “a grandparent who has functioned as a

parent	to	the	child	seeks	continued	contact	with	that	child”—in	other	words,

“[w]hen	a	grandparent	has	been	the	primary	caregiver	and	custodian	for	a	child

over a significant period of time.” Rideout, 2000 ME 198, ¶¶ 25, 27,

761	A.2d	291 (quotation marks omitted); see also Conlogue v. Conlogue,

2006	ME	12,	¶	10,	890	A.2d	691;	Robichaud,	2003	ME	54,	¶	10,	820	A.2d	1212

(stating that “Rideout’s ‘urgent reasons’ standard presupposes extraordinary

contact	between	a	grandparent	and	grandchildren	to	satisfy	the	constitutional

requirement of a compelling state interest to interfere with parents’ right to

care for and control their children”). Conversely, where a grandparent’s

contact	with	the	grandchild	is	not	extraordinary	but	rather	is	“intermittent,”	the

grandparent	does	not	have	standing	to	proceed	with	a	GVA	petition. Robichaud,

2003	ME	54,	¶	10,	820	A.2d	1212;	see	also	19-A	M.R.S.	§	1803(1).

[¶16] We	have	not,	however,	restricted	the	“urgent	reasons”	necessary

to satisfy standing in a GVA case to the circumstance described in Rideout,

where the petitioning grandparent had what amounted to a de facto parent

relationship with the grandchild. Rideout, 2000 ME 198, ¶¶ 4-5, 24-26,

761	A.2d 291. Rather, such a relationship is “[o]ne such urgent reason” that
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warranted	protection	for	the	grandchildren’s	benefit. Conlogue,	2006	ME	12,

¶	10, 890 A.2d 691 (emphasis added); see also Dorr v. Woodard,

2016	ME	79, ¶	17, 140 A.3d 467 (“To date, the only ‘urgent reason’ that we

have articulated for the intrusion upon a fit parent’s rights and grant of

court-ordered visitation is the child’s need for continued contact with a

grandparent	who	has	been	a	primary	caregiver	and	custodian	for	a	significant

part	of	the	child’s	life.”);	Davis	v.	Anderson,	2008	ME	125,	¶	15,	953	A.2d	1166

(stating	that	“urgent	reasons	exist	when	grandparents	have	acted	as	de	facto

parents. No	other	urgent	reasons	have	yet	been	identified.”	(citation	omitted)).

[¶17] Therefore, in an action brought under the GVA, when a

grandparent attempts to establish standing to pursue a claim for rights of

visitation with or access to the child through evidence of a de facto parent

relationship,	then—contrary	to	the	court’s	reasoning	here—that	standing	will

rest	not	on	the	proof	that	would	be	required	in	a	de	facto	parenthood	case	itself,

but	rather	on	proof	of	standing	as	prescribed	in	the	GVA,	namely,	the	existence

of	a	“sufficient	existing	relationship”	that	rises	to	the	level	of	an	“urgent	reason”

as	we	have	explained	that	principle.11 If,	however,	a	petitioner	who	happens	to

11 Whatever	may	be	the	“urgent	reason”	that	is	essential	to	satisfy	standing,	it	is	determined	by

looking	to	the	child’s	needs,	not	those	of	a	petitioner. See	Dorr,	2016	ME	79,	¶	17,	140	A.3d	467;	see
also	Rideout,	2000	ME	198,	¶	26,	761	A.2d	291	(“The	cessation	of	contact	with	a	grandparent	whom
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be a grandparent seeks to be adjudicated as a de facto parent, then the

petitioner	will	be	required	to	prove	standing	pursuant	to	de	facto	parenthood

principles.

[¶18] While	the	differences	between	the	standing	requirements	in	GVA

and de facto parenthood proceedings are now a function of statute, we

previously described the reason why those differences exist. In a GVA

proceeding,	a	court	may	award	the	limited	rights	of	visitation	or	access,	but	only

to the extent that the award does not “significantly interfere with any

parent-child	relationship	or	with	the	parent’s	rightful	authority	over	the	child.”

the child views as a parent may have a dramatic, and even traumatic, effect upon the child’s
well-being.”	(emphasis	added)). We	have	made	clear,	however,	that	while	the	focus	of	the	analysis	is
on the child, the child’s best interest—by itself—is not a sufficiently urgent reason that
constitutionally	satisfies	the	GVA	standing	requirement. See	Dorr,	2016	ME	79,	¶	17,	140	A.3d	467;
Davis,	2008	ME 125, ¶ 13, 953 A.2d 1166; Conlogue, 2006 ME 12, ¶ 17, 890 A.2d 691; Rideout,
2000	ME	198,	¶	12,	761	A.2d	291.

Further,	although	we	have	left	open	the	prospect	that	a	grandparent	may	establish	standing
to	pursue	visitation	rights	pursuant	to	the	GVA	with	proof	of	some	“urgent	reason”	other	than	de	facto
parenthood,	our	discussions	make	clear	that	any	such	opening	is	narrow. See,	e.g.,	Dorr,	2016	ME	79,
¶¶	16-17,	140	A.3d	467. We	have	cautioned	that

it will be difficult for a grandparent to demonstrate a compelling state interest
sufficient	to	infringe	on	a	fit	parent’s	fundamental	right	when	there	is	no	threat	of
harm	to	the	child.

.	.	.	.

Ultimately, the relationship that a grandparent has with his or her grandchild is a
decision to be made by a fit parent, not the courts, unless the record presents a
compelling	reason	for	the	State	to	intervene.

Id.	¶¶	16,	28.
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19-A	M.R.S.	§	1803(3). This	contrasts	with	de	facto	parenthood	proceedings,	as

well	as	child	protection	and	guardianship	cases,	where	there	is	the	prospect	of

a much more profound disruption of a parent’s relationship with his or her

child because the full panoply of parental rights and responsibilities can be

awarded	to	third	persons,	thereby	requiring	a	stronger	justification	to	allow	the

case to progress to a plenary hearing. See Pitts v. Moore, 2014 ME 59, ¶ 16,

90	A.3d 1169 (quoting 19-A M.R.S. § 1803(3)). Therefore, not only do the

elemental	standing	requirements	differ	in	the	two	types	of	proceedings,	but	the

overall	principle	and	nature	of	standing	in	a	de	facto	parenthood	case	must	be

seen	conceptually	as	more	substantial	than	in	GVA	cases	in	order	to	justify	the

deeper level of governmental intrusion into a parent’s constitutionally

protected	interests.

[¶19] Against this legal backdrop, we now consider the sufficiency of

evidence	of	Deborah’s	standing	to	pursue	rights	pursuant	to	the	GVA	and	as	a

de	facto	parent.

B. Sufficiency	of	Evidence	of	Deborah’s	Standing

[¶20] As	we	have	noted,	Deborah	commenced	this	action	pursuant	to	the

GVA	but	also	raised	the	specter	of	de	facto	parenthood,	and	the	court’s	analysis

centered	on	the	standing	requirements	imposed	in	a	de	facto	parenthood	case.
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Therefore,	we	review	Deborah’s	petition	both	as	a	claim	pursuant	to	the	GVA

and	one	seeking	de	facto	parenthood. We	first	conclude	that	Deborah	has	not

established, as a matter of law, that she has standing to pursue a GVA claim.

And beyond that, she has failed to demonstrate standing for a de facto

parenthood claim both because, as the court correctly concluded, the record

does not	satisfy	all	of	the	statutory elements,	and also	because	her	failure	to

meet	the	lower	threshold	of	GVA	standing	necessarily	means	that	she	cannot

meet	the	greater	standard	imposed	in	de	facto	parenthood	claims. We	address

Deborah’s	claim	of	standing	in	both	contexts.

[¶21] Preliminarily, we note that in its order, the court examined

Deborah’s	factual	assertions	that	were	most	supportive	of	her	claim. With	one

exception	relating	to	Corrie’s	boyfriend,	discussed	infra	¶	24,	the	court	did	so

by	accepting	those	assertions	as	true,	which	is	an	evidentiary	standard	that	was

more generous than that to which Deborah was actually entitled. The GVA

specifically	provides	that	the	court	shall	make	its	standing	determination	based

on facts found by the court. See 19-A M.R.S. §	1803(2)(C) (“The court shall

determine	on	the	basis	of	the	petition	and	the	affidavit	whether	it	is	more	likely

than not that there is a sufficient existing relationship or, if a sufficient

relationship does not exist, that a sufficient effort to establish one has been
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made.”	(emphasis	added)). Similarly,	as	we	stated	in	an	opinion	published	after

the	court	issued	its	judgment,	when	attempting	to	demonstrate	standing	in	a	de

facto	parenthood	case,	the	petitioner	is	subject	to	a	burden	of	persuasion	and

not	merely	one	of	production. See	Davis,	2018	ME	72,	¶¶	19,	25-26,	---	A.3d	---.

Even	when	the	record	is	viewed	as	the	court	did,	Deborah	has	not	demonstrated

standing to become entitled to a plenary hearing for GVA rights or de facto

parenthood,	which	we	address	in	turn.

1. GVA	Standing

[¶22] In	her	submissions,	Deborah	stated	that	Corrie	and	the	child	lived

at	Deborah’s	residence	until	the	child	turned	two	years	old,	which	was	at	the

end	of	2010. Corrie	and	the	child	then	moved	into	a	separate	residence. From

that	time	until	Corrie	chose	to	limit	Deborah’s	contact	with	the	child	starting

approximately in March of 2017, Deborah’s contact with the child largely

occurred one day per week after school and during most weekends, and by

means	of	electronic	communication,	except	for	a	unique	circumstance	in	early

2017,	shortly	after	Deborah’s	husband	died,	when	Corrie	and	the	child	stayed

at Deborah’s residence for approximately three weeks. Notably, as Deborah

acknowledged	in	her	affidavits,	she	provided	limited	care	for	the	child,	and	the

child remained enrolled in daycare and, later, in afterschool care. In short,
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although	Deborah’s	contact	with	the	child	was	on	a	somewhat	predictable	basis,

that contact was nonetheless intermittent. As we have held, intermittent

contact	with	a	child	is	not	an	urgent	reason	that	would	allow	a	court	to	grant

visitation rights to a grandparent. See Robichaud, 2003 ME 54, ¶ 10,

820	A.2d	1212.

[¶23] In addition to the contact Deborah described, she asserted that

Corrie had listed Deborah as the child’s emergency contact and that Corrie

consulted	with	her	about	parenting	issues. These	extrinsic	forms	of	Deborah’s

involvement in the child’s life are typical of a grandparent’s support for a

grandchild	and	cannot	be	seen	to	rise	to	the	level	of	urgency	necessary	to	allow

the court to consider intruding into Corrie’s constitutionally protected

relationship	with	the	child. See,	e.g.,	Katon	v.	Brandi	M.,	2011	ME	131,	¶¶	2-3,

32	A.3d	1047	(affirming	the	dismissal	of	a	GVA	petition	for	lack	of	standing	on

the basis that the contact averred was “typical for a grandparent and not

extraordinary”).

[¶24] As	noted	above,	the	one	contested	aspect	of	the	evidence	where

the	court	did	make	findings	relates	to	Corrie’s	boyfriend,	who	is	a	convicted	sex

offender. In	her	affidavit,	Deborah	expressed	concern	about	the	child’s	safety

in his presence. In a responsive affidavit, however, Corrie provided detailed
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information about her interaction with the boyfriend’s probation officer and

therapist	to	determine	if	the	child	was	at	risk,	the	probation	officer’s	approval

of contact between the boyfriend and the child, and the probation officer’s

contact	with	the	Department	of	Health	and	Human	Services	at	her	request	so

that that agency is fully aware of the child’s circumstances. Based on the

information	provided	in	these	competing	affidavits,	the	court	found	that	Corrie

had	addressed	Deborah’s	concerns. The	court	was	entitled	to	make	findings	of

this	type,	and	the	finding	is	supported	by	the	evidence. See	Philbrook,	2008	ME

152,	¶	21,	957	A.2d	74. In	one	of	her	affidavits,	Deborah	expressly	asserted	that

the presence of the boyfriend in the child’s life was one of the two specific

circumstances	that,	she	claimed,	entitled	her	to	rights	to	the	child	even	over	the

mother’s objection.12 Pursuant to the court’s findings, her concern is not

substantiated	and	cannot	rise	to	the	level	of	an	urgent	reason.

[¶25] For	purposes	of	the	GVA	standing	analysis,	Deborah	therefore	has

not demonstrated the existence of a substantial existing relationship that

constitutes	an	“urgent	reason,”	as	we	have	explained	that	concept,	see,	e.g.,	Dorr,

12 The	second	circumstance	as	alleged	by	Deborah	was	the	interruption	of	her	contact	with	the

grandchild,	which,	as	we	discuss	in	the	text,	was	not	of	a	magnitude	that	would	support	creation	of
rights	pursuant	to	the	GVA. See	supra	¶¶	4,	22-23.
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2016 ME 79, ¶¶ 16-17, 140 A.3d 467, necessary to justify governmental

intrusion	in	Corrie’s	relationship	with	her	child.

2. De	Facto	Parenthood	Standing

[¶26] When Deborah’s petition is seen as seeking an adjudication of

de	facto	parenthood,	the	court	correctly	concluded	that	her	relationship	with

the child fell materially short of the exacting standards necessary for a third

person to be determined as a child’s parent. Our review of the record

developed by the parties does not reveal triable contentions that Deborah

engaged in consistent caretaking of the child, that Corrie accepted or

acknowledged	Deborah as	a	co-parent	of	the	child,	or	that	Deborah	accepted

“full and permanent responsibilities” as the child’s parent. See 19-A M.R.S.

§	1891(3)(B)-(D). These are requisite elements of a claim to become a

judicially recognized de facto parent and are therefore also elements of

standing	necessary	to	pursue	that	claim. See	id.	§	1891(2)(C). Because	Deborah

failed to present evidence of these elements—much less establish them by a

preponderance	of	the	evidence,	see	Davis,	2018	ME	72,	¶¶	19,	25-26,	---	A.3d	---

—she	has	not	demonstrated	standing	to	proceed	to	a	plenary	hearing.

[¶27] Further, by logical force, because Deborah has not satisfied the

standing requirements for her GVA petition to obtain the less-intrusive
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visitation	and	access	rights	to	the	child	over	a	fit	parent’s	objection,	Deborah

cannot	satisfy	the	more	rigorous	standing	requirement	imposed	by	the	MPA—

namely, that she has “fully and completely undertaken a permanent,

unequivocal, committed and responsible parental role in the child’s life”—to

warrant	intrusion	in	Corrie’s	fundamental	right	to	parent	and	raise	her	child.

See	19-A	M.R.S.	§	1891(3).

III. CONCLUSION

[¶28] Because Deborah did not establish standing to proceed to a

plenary hearing on her petition pursuant to the GVA or the more stringent

statutory	requirements	of	a	de	facto	parenthood	claim,	we	affirm	the	judgment

dismissing	her	petition.

The	entry	is:

Judgment	affirmed.

JABAR,	J.,	dissenting.

[¶29] I	respectfully	dissent	because	the	trial	court	used	the	wrong	legal

standard to determine whether Deborah established standing under the

Grandparents	Visitation	Act	(GVA),	19-A	M.R.S.	§§	1801-1805	(2017). The	trial

court’s decision hinged upon whether Deborah established standing as a
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de	facto	parent	to	the	child. This	is	not	the	proper	test	to	be	applied	by	the	trial

court in order to determine standing in a GVA case. Because it was the trial

court	that	mistakenly	introduced	the	issue	of	de	facto	parenthood,	our	review

must	focus	on	whether	Deborah	has	established	standing	pursuant	to	the	GVA

and	not	pursuant	to	the	principles	of	de	facto	parenthood.

A. The	Trial	Court’s	Application	of	the	Wrong	Standard

[¶30] Although	Deborah’s	cause	of	action	was	for	contact	pursuant	to	the

GVA,	the	Court’s	opinion	repeatedly	refers	to	Deborah’s	attempts	to	establish

standing	by	proving	that	she	was	a	de	facto	parent. Court’s	Opinion	¶¶	1,	4,	7,

9,	20. For	example,	the	Court	refers	to	Deborah	as	“a	putative	de	facto	parent”

to the child, states that Deborah’s “submissions to the court . . . introduced

concepts	that	are	specific	to	the	law	of	de	facto	parenthood,”	and	asserts	that

even	though	“Deborah	commenced	this	action	pursuant	to	the	GVA,”	she	“raised

the	specter	of	de	facto	parenthood.” Court’s	Opinion	¶¶	1,	9,	20. The	Court	also

references the language at the very end of Deborah’s petition—that she was

seeking “primary physical residence” of the child—as support that she was

seeking	a	de	facto	parenthood	adjudication,	and	yet	in	footnote	four,	the	Court

acknowledges	that	Deborah	was	not	seeking	primary	physical	residence	of	the

child. Court’s	Opinion	¶¶	4,	7	n.4.
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[¶31] The record, however, does not support these assertions by the

Court. Because	a	trial	court’s	decision	on	standing	is	based	on	the	pleadings

without a hearing, see 19-A M.R.S. § 1803(2)(C) (2017), we must look to the

documents that were presented to the trial court prior to its decision. In

Deborah’s petition for contact pursuant to the GVA and her accompanying

affidavit,	there	is	no	reference	whatsoever	to	the	term	de	facto	parentage	or	the

Maine	Parentage	Act. See	19-A	M.R.S.	§	1891	(2017). In	response	to	Deborah’s

GVA	petition,	Corrie	filed	a	motion	to	dismiss	with	an	accompanying	affidavit.

In	this	responsive	pleading,	which	incorporated	a	memorandum	of	law,	there

is	also	no	reference	to	the	term	de	facto	parentage. The	memorandum	of	law

cites and analogizes to our case Robichaud v. Pariseau, 2003 ME 54,

820	A.2d	1212,	which	is a GVA	case	that	does not	involve	de	facto	parentage

issues.

[¶32] Without	any	further	documents	presented	to	the	court	by	Deborah

or Corrie, the trial court for the first time mistakenly referenced de facto

parentage when it concluded that Deborah had failed to make a prima facie

showing	that	she	was	a	de	facto	parent	to	the	child	and	that	she	therefore	lacked

standing	to	proceed. In	its	order	dismissing	Deborah’s	petition	for	visitation,

the	trial	court	concluded	that
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Petitioner	has	not	shown	de	facto	parent	status,	and	thus	cannot
constitutionally pursue visitation rights under the Grandparents
Visitation	Act.

Accordingly	.	.	.	the	court	declines	to	find	that	she	has	made	a
prima facie showing of de facto parentage as required for her to
establish	standing	under	the	Grandparents	Visitation	Act.

[¶33] In response to the court’s order, Deborah filed a motion for

reconsideration	and	requested	an	alteration	of	the	court’s	decision,	and	it	was

at	that	point,	for	the	first	time,	that	Deborah	referred	to	de	facto	parentage	and

the	legal	precedents	cited	by	the	trial	court	in	its	order. It	is	obvious	that	she

was trying to bring the facts of her case under the umbrella of de facto

parentage	as	a	result	of	the	trial	court’s	improper	application	of	that	standard.

It	is	wholly	inaccurate	to	imply,	in	any	way,	that	Deborah’s	case	strategy	was

the	reason	the	trial	court	incorrectly	applied	the	de	facto	parentage	standard	to

determine	whether	Deborah	had	standing	to	proceed. Of	its	own	volition,	the

trial	court	steered	this	case	onto	a	side	track	dealing	with	de	facto	parentage

where	it	did	not	belong;	it	is	a	mistake	for	us	to	continue	down	that	track.

[¶34] Although	Deborah’s	post-judgment	motion	filed	in	the	trial	court

and	her	brief	on	appeal	construe	her	arguments	in	terms	of	de	facto	parentage,

that legal strategy is the logical outgrowth of the trial court’s erroneous

application of the de facto parentage framework to Deborah’s initial GVA
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petition. I must reiterate that upon the GVA petition and the responsive

pleading,	neither	Corrie	nor	Deborah	ever	mentioned	de	facto	parentage,	and	it

is entirely unnecessary for this Court, upon appellate review, to consider

Deborah’s	arguments	regarding	de	facto	parentage—which	she	advanced	only

after the court improperly introduced this concept into the case—as the

precursor	to	her	GVA	petition.

[¶35] In	the	end,	it	should	not	make	any	difference	who	raised	the	issue

of	de	facto	parentage—the	trial	court	used	the	wrong	legal	standard	when	it

failed	to	assess	standing	in	this	case	pursuant	to	a	GVA	analysis. Because	this

is	a	GVA	case,	and	not	a	de	facto	parenthood	case,	the	statutory	requirements

for	standing	pursuant	to	the	GVA	should	be	the	only	issue	that	we	consider	in

our	review.

B. The	Proper	Standard	and	its	Application	to	this	Case

[¶36] In	1991,	the	Legislature	first	enacted	the	Grandparents	Visitation

Act.13 See P.L. 1991, ch. 414 (effective Oct. 9, 1991) (codified at 19 M.R.S.A.

13 In enacting the GVA, the Legislature demonstrated its belief that the maintenance of the
relationship	between	the	grandparent	and	the	grandchild	is	in	the	best	interest	of	the	child	in	certain
cases,	and	that	that	relationship	is	something	of	value	from	the	child’s	perspective. See	L.D.	1307,
Statement	of	Fact	(115th	Legis.	1991)	(“All	children	are	entitled	to	enjoy	secure,	stable	and	beneficial
relationships	with	their	grandparents	and	to	maintain	these	relationships	.	.	.	. The	bill	allows	the
court	to	maintain	the	relationship	between	a	grandchild	and	that	grandchild’s	grandparents	when	it
is	in	the	grandchild’s	best	interest	and	does	not	interfere	with	a	parent-child	relationship.”).
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§§	1001-1005	(Supp.	1991)). Our	opinions	construing	the	GVA	have	effectively

made	it	impossible	for	grandparents	to	establish	standing. See	Dorr	v.	Woodard,

2016 ME 79, ¶¶	29-43, 140 A.3d 467 (Jabar, J., dissenting) (discussing the

demise of each possible avenue to establish standing pursuant to the GVA).

Regardless, I believe that the GVA—which has neither been repealed by the

Legislature	nor	held	facially	unconstitutional	by	this	Court—and	its	statutory

requirements	should	control	our	analysis.

[¶37] In Robichaud, the leading case cited by Corrie in her motion to

dismiss,	we	interpreted	the	GVA,	without	reference	to	de	facto	parenthood,	as

requiring three safeguards against the intrusion into a parent’s fundamental

rights:

The safeguards include that: (1) a grandparent must establish
standing	before	litigation may commence on a petition, (2) the
court must consider any objection of the parents concerning an
award	of	rights	of	visitation	or	access	by	the	grandparents	(giving
life	to	the	presumption	that	parents	act	in	the	best	interests	of	their
children), and (3) the court may not grant visitation if doing so
would	significantly	interfere	with	any	parent-child	relationship	or
with	the	parent's	rightful	authority	over	the	child.

2003 ME 54, ¶ 8 n.2, 820 A.2d 1212 (quotation marks omitted). The first

safeguard, and the only one relevant to this case at this stage, is that the

grandparent	must	establish	standing	before	litigation	may	commence. See	id.;

see also 19-A M.R.S. § 1803(1)(A)-(C). Pursuant to section 1803(1)(B), a
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grandparent	may	petition	the	court	for	reasonable	rights	of	visitation	or	access

if	“a	sufficient	existing	relationship”	exists	“between	the	grandparent	and	the

child.” In	Robichaud,	we	held	that	in	order	to	comply	with	the	constitutional

protections afforded parents, grandparents must establish that “urgent

reasons”	exist. 2003	ME	54,	¶¶	7,	10,	820	A.2d	1212. Implicit	within	the	test

set forth in Robichaud was the concept that the “urgent reasons standard

presupposes	extraordinary	contact	between	a	grandparent	and	grandchildren

to satisfy the constitutional requirement of a compelling state interest to

interfere with parents’ right to care for and control their children.” Id. ¶ 10

(quotation	marks	omitted).

[¶38] Although	the	test	set	out	in	Robichaud	does	not	require	any	finding

of de facto parenthood, some of our cases following Robichaud have led to

confusion	regarding	the	intersection	of	the	law	governing	de	facto	parentage

and grandparent visitation.14 In some of those cases, we have held that the

establishment	of	de	facto	parentage	status	meets	the	“extraordinary	contact”

test set forth in Robichaud, see, e.g., Davis v. Anderson, 2008 ME 125, ¶ 19,

953	A.2d 1166; Dorr, 2016 ME 79, ¶	17, 140 A.3d 467, but just because the

14 Although the Court’s opinion gives a thorough explanation of de facto parenthood, it is

unnecessary	and,	more	importantly,	it	adds	to	the	confusion	that	this	line	of	cases	has	created. Other
than	holding	that	the	trial	court	erred	by	using	the	standard	for	de	facto	parenthood	in	a	GVA	case,
there	is	no	need	to	discuss	de	facto	parenthood.
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establishment	of	de	facto	parentage	will	satisfy	the	“extraordinary	contact”	test

does	not	mean	that	the	de	facto	parentage	test	is	the	proper	test	to	apply	when

evaluating a case brought pursuant to the GVA. In order to gain standing

pursuant	to	a	de	facto	parentage	claim,	the	petitioner	must	meet	a	much	higher

bar	than	the	petitioner	must	meet	pursuant	to	the	GVA.

[¶39] In	Dorr	v.	Woodard	and	Davis	v.	Anderson,	for	example,	we	clearly

indicated that there may be other cases that fall short of the stringent

requirements	of	de	facto	parentage	but	nevertheless	may	still	pass	the	“urgent

reasons”	or	“extraordinary	contact”	test	of	Robichaud. In	Dorr,	we	stated	that

“[t]o date, the only urgent reason that we have articulated” is the test for

de	facto parentage, but “[i]t is possible that in some circumstances, a

grandparent’s	sufficient	effort	to	establish	a	relationship	with	her	grandchild

could pass constitutional muster and demonstrate urgent reasons

.	.	.	. However, we are not called upon here to define all instances where a

compelling	interest	could	be	demonstrated.” 2016	ME	79,	¶¶	17,	24,	140	A.3d

467	(emphasis	added)	(quotation	marks	omitted). In	Anderson,	we	stated	that

aside from de	facto parentage, “[n]o other urgent reasons have yet been

identified.” 2008	ME	125,	¶	15,	953	A.2d	1166	(emphasis	added).
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[¶40] Here, the pivotal issue is whether Deborah established

“extraordinary	contact”	with	her	grandchild. See	Robichaud,	2003	ME	54,	¶	10,

820 A.2d 1212. Using	the	de	facto	parentage	test	creates	a	much	higher	bar

than	necessary	to	establish	standing	in	a	GVA	case. Because	this	is	a	GVA	case

not involving any claim for de facto parenthood, and the trial court used the

wrong legal standard, we should remand for the trial court to consider the

pleadings using the proper “extraordinary contact” standard articulated in

Robichaud.

[¶41] Although the Court acknowledges that the trial court used the

wrong	legal	standard	to	determine	Deborah’s	standing,	it	does	not	remand	the

case	to	the	trial	court	to	determine	standing	using	the	proper	standard. Court’s

Opinion	¶	9. Rather,	the	Court,	as	a	matter	of	law,	concludes	that	Deborah	has

failed	to	establish	standing	under	the	GVA. Court’s	Opinion	¶¶	9,	21. In	this,	I

strongly	disagree. If	we	are	to	review	the	affidavits	and	the	facts	presented	in

the affidavits, then I believe that Deborah has established “extraordinary

contact” with her grandchild such that she has standing to proceed on her

petition.

[¶42] At	the	outset,	it	is	important	to	note	that	standing	does	not	afford

Deborah	an entitlement	to	relief	under the	GVA—it	only	establishes	that	she
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has	had	a	close	enough	relationship	with	the	child	such	that	she	is	entitled	to

be	heard	regarding	whether	it	is	in	the	child’s	best	interest	that	she	have	contact

with the child. See 19-A M.R.S. § 1803(2)-(3). Once standing has been

established,	the	trial	court	addresses	the	best	interest	of	the	child. See	id. It	is

at	that	point	in	the	proceeding	that	the	trial	court	would	consider	the	second

and	third	safeguards	enunciated	in	Robichaud:

(2)	the	court	must	consider	any	objection	of	the	parents	concerning
an award of rights of visitation or access by the grandparents
(giving	life	to	the	presumption	that	parents	act	in	the	best	interests
of	their	children),	and	(3)	the	court	may	not	grant	visitation	if	doing
so	would	significantly	interfere	with	any	parent-child	relationship
or	with	the	parent's	rightful	authority	over	the	child.

2003 ME 54, ¶ 8 n.2, 820 A.2d 1212 (quotation marks omitted). After

consideration	of	these	safeguards	and	the	best	interest	standard,	the	trial	court

may conclude that the grandparents are not entitled to any contact or are

entitled	to	only	limited	contact.15 As	to	the	standing	issue,	the	focus	is	only	on

the	relationship	between	the	grandparent	and	the	child.

[¶43] In Robichaud, we indicated that the focus is on the existing or

historical	contact	between	the	grandparent	and	the	child	to	determine	whether

15 The Court discusses Corrie’s boyfriend in its opinion, see Court’s Opinion ¶ 24, but that

discussion	is	misplaced	at	our	stage	of	appellate	review	because	although	it	may	be	relevant	to	what
is	in	the	child’s	best	interest,	it	is	irrelevant	to	the	issue	of	standing. The	child’s	best	interest	is	not
before	us	today.
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that contact is “extraordinary.” 2003 ME 54, ¶ 10, 820 A.2d 1212. The

grandmother	in	Robichaud	described	her	contact	as	occasional	visits	with	the

grandchildren,	with	visits	sometimes	lasting	one	day	to	one	week	over	about	a

three-year	period. Id.	¶	6. The	trial	court	there	found	that	the	contact	described

typified the type of contact that “one would anticipate from a connected,

extended family.” Id. (quotation marks omitted). We agreed and concluded

that	this	level	of	contact	was	“intermittent”	and	therefore	did	not	show	that	the

grandmother	had	had	extraordinary	contact	with	the	grandchildren. Id.	¶	10.

Similarly,	in	Dorr,	we	decided	that	the	facts—the	grandmother	attended	a	baby

shower	for	the	child,	went	to	the	hospital	the	evening	that	the	child	was	born,

and	had	some	unspecified	amount	of	contact	with	the	child—did	not	establish

a sufficient existing relationship to confer standing. 2016 ME 79, ¶¶ 4, 20,

140	A.3d	467.

[¶44] This	case	is	very	different. The	relationship	between	Deborah	and

the	child	was	anything	but	ordinary	or	intermittent. Unlike	the	grandmother	in

Robichaud,	Deborah’s	contact	was	extraordinary	and	not	typical. The	following

facts, which are not contested, are contained in the grandmother’s affidavit:

Corrie	and	the	child	lived	with	her,	full	time,	for	the	first	two	years	of	the	child’s

life. When	Corrie	moved	out,	she	moved	only	a	half-mile	away,	and	Corrie	and
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the	child	had	contact	with	the	grandparents	several	days	a	week. Deborah	had

the	child	with	her	at	least	one	day	per	week	and	most	weekends	for	the	first

several	years	of	the	child’s	life. As	soon	as	the	child	was	old	enough	for	daycare,

Deborah	had	him	two	days	per	week	while	Corrie	was	at	work,	and	Deborah

saw	him	almost	every	weekend. When	the	child	started	school,	she	would	meet

him	at	the	bus	on	Wednesdays	and	feed	him	dinner. Deborah	spoke	with	the

child	on	the	phone	and	through	other	electronic	media	several	days	per	week.

This	close	relationship	continued	for	eight	years	until	December	of	2016,	when

a conflict arose between Corrie and Deborah because of Corrie’s boyfriend.

Later, after the child’s grandfather, Deborah’s husband, died, Corrie and the

child moved in with Deborah for almost a month. This contact between

Deborah	and	her	grandchild	was	regular,	close,	and	intensive;	it	was	far	from

“typical.” See	Court’s	Opinion	¶	23;	Katon	v.	Brandi	M.,	2011	ME	131,	¶¶	2-3,

32	A.3d 1047. In fact, it is the exact type of “secure, stable and beneficial”

relationship	that	the	Legislature	intended	to	permit	grandparents	to	preserve

and	maintain	through	its	enactment	of	the	GVA. See	supra	n.13.

[¶45] Although	these	facts	would	not	entitle	the	grandmother	to	de	facto

parenthood status—a status she never requested—the grandmother’s

relationship with the child far exceeds that which is typical of a “connected,
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extended	family”	and	is	exactly	the	kind	of	“sufficient	existing	relationship”	the

Legislature intended should give rise to grandparent standing to seek

visitation. If	called	upon	to	make	a	conclusion	from	the	facts	contained	in	the

affidavit—which	would	be	unnecessary	were	we	to	remand	so	that	the	court

could	apply	the	proper	legal	standard—we	should	conclude	that	Deborah	has

established standing to proceed on her petition. Therefore, she should be

entitled	to	make	her	case	in	court	that	some	level	of	contact	between	her	and

the	grandchild	is	in	the	child’s	best	interest.

C. Conclusion

[¶46] We should remand for the trial court to apply the proper

“extraordinary	contact”	standard	enunciated in Robichaud. Alternatively,	we

should	conclude	as	a	matter	of	law	that	Deborah	has	demonstrated	that	she	has

had	extraordinary	contact	with	the	child	and	therefore	has	a	sufficient	existing

relationship	to	establish	standing	pursuant	to	section	1803	of	the	GVA	such	that

she	may	proceed	on	the	merits	of	her	petition.

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Kenneth	I.	Marass,	Esq.	(orally),	Springvale,	for	appellant	Deborah	E.	Lamkin

Peter	E.	Rodway,	Esq.	(orally),	Rodway	&	Horodyski,	P.A.,	Portland,	for	appellee
Corrie	L.	Lamkin

Portland	District	Court	docket	number	FM-2017-479
FOR	CLERK	REFERENCE	ONLY

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Source: Frix Law Library, https://www.frixlaw.com/law-library/cases/4283590. Public record. Not legal advice.
