# In re: C.H.B.

> Court of Appeals of North Carolina · February 18, 2026

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## Case

- **Court:** Court of Appeals of North Carolina
- **Decided:** February 18, 2026
- **Precedential status:** Unpublished
- **Opinion:** Opinion by Judge Julee Flood
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## Opinion text

An unpublished opinion of the North Carolina Court of Appeals does not constitute
controlling legal authority. Citation is disfavored, but may be permitted in accordance with
the provisions of Rule 30(e)(3) of the North Carolina Rules of Appellate Procedure.

IN THE COURT OF APPEALS OF NORTH CAROLINA

No. COA25-444

Filed 18 February 2026

Yadkin County, No. 24JT000029-980

IN THE MATTER OF: C.H.B.

Appeal by respondent from order entered 31 January 2025 by Judge Donna L.

Shumate in Yadkin County District Court. Heard in the Court of Appeals 29 January

2026.

Parent Defender Wendy C. Sotolongo, by Assistant Parent Defender Jacky
Brammer, for respondent-appellant-mother.

No brief filed for petitioner-appellee-father.

FLOOD, Judge.

Respondent-Mother appeals from the trial court’s order terminating

Respondent’s parental rights for willfully abandoning her minor child. On appeal,

Respondent argues the trial court’s findings of fact are unsupported by competent

evidence, and the order should be reversed. Upon careful review, we conclude the trial

court properly terminated her parental rights.

I. Factual and Procedural Background
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Respondent and Petitioner-Father are the biological parents of Curt,1 a minor

child born on 22 April 2021. When Curt was born, the parties were not married, but

were residing “together in [Petitioner’s] parents’ home[.]” The parties lived together

until 6 October 2021, when Respondent “left the parties[’] residence in [Petitioner’s]

van and took the child to her father’s home in Sparta, North Carolina[.]”

On 7 October 2021, Respondent “tried to kill herself[,]” and she “admitted to

family to using methamphetamine.” Respondent was involuntarily committed and

later discharged on 15 October 2021. When she was released, it was recommended

that Respondent seek mental health medical treatment.

Petitioner subsequently filed an ex-parte custody complaint seeking temporary

sole physical and legal custody of Curt. In his complaint, Petitioner alleged that

Respondent left him so that she could be with her boyfriend, Shawn Elliot Billings,

who has pending charges against him in South Carolina, and that Petitioner

“believe[d] that [Respondent] is abusing illegal substances, specifically

methamphetamine, as well as having mental health issues which [Petitioner]

believes are untreated[.]” The trial court granted Petitioner temporary custody on 4

November 2021.

On 2 December 2021, the trial court reviewed the ex-parte order and heard

arguments by the parties. The trial court found that Respondent “continues to use

1 A pseudonym is used to protect the identity of the minor child and for ease of reading
pursuant to N.C. R. Civ. P. 42(b).

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drugs since her involuntary commitment [] as she made admissions that she used the

drug methamphetamine on at least two occasions since her release . . .”; “has not

worked at a job since approximately September of 2020”; and “currently resides with

her father[.]” Even so, the trial court acknowledged it “ha[d] no information about

[Respondent’s] father, the condition of the home [Respondent] lives in with her father,

her father’s stability or the stability of the home[.]” Additionally, the trial court found

that Respondent’s boyfriend, Billings, “has pending charges in South Carolina for

Abuse/To Inflict Great Bodily Injury Upon a Child, the injury alleged being a fracture

to a child’s skull”; Respondent “knew of this charge but believed Billings when he told

her he was not responsible for the injury”; Respondent “made no independent inquiry

in to the facts of the charge”; and Respondent “allowed Billings to be in the presence

of [Curt].” The trial court then entered a temporary order, ruling it was in the best

interest of Curt that Petitioner have “temporary sole legal and physical custody of

the child . . . until further Order of the Court” and that Respondent “may have

supervised visitation with the minor child, . . . at Our House . . . .”2

Respondent attended her supervised visits with Curt at Our House until 22

November 2022, at which point Our House paused visitation for a minimum of ninety

days. Our House explained, in part:

In our Supervised Visitation Agreement, under section

2 Our House is a non-profit organization in Wilkesboro, North Carolina that “coordinates
investigation, evaluation, counseling, and court agency advocacy in child abuse cases[.]”
https://business.wilkeschamber.org/list/member/our-house-child-abuse-prevention-team-capt-1019.

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Visit Rules and Procedures item 10 states: “The visit
monitor is responsible for ending a visit if the visiting child
is inconsolable for 10 minutes during the visit. The
custodial party will be contacted to remove the child from
the visit.” [Curt] has now had four visitations where the
visit monitor has had to remove him from the visitation and
release him back to the custodial party due to him being
inconsolable.

The Child Abuse Prevention Team / Our House board
members have decided that it is in the best emotional
interest of the child to pause visitation at this time. The
custodial party for [Curt] has informed [the Child Abuse
Prevention Team] / Our House that they are working with
a child’s counselor to conclude what is best for [Curt]
regarding visitation. The counselor has also reached out to
the Executive Director at [the Child Abuse Prevention
Team] / Our House for visitation notes. The counselor
stated that she would like to evaluate [Curt] and
[Respondent] together. Executive Director provided the
counselor with the information she requested.

Respondent did, however, visit with Curt on Thanksgiving and Christmas that year,

with Curt’s paternal grandmother supervising.

Following the pause from Our House, Curt was evaluated and attended at least

one counseling session until 20 March 2023 when Petitioner discontinued the

counseling services. The visits at Our House were not restarted.

In April 2023, Respondent asked Petitioner if she could see Curt for his

birthday but contends she “was told no [by Petitioner] because it wasn’t Court

ordered.” Several months later, Respondent reached out to Petitioner’s wife to try to

set up visits with Curt for Thanksgiving and Christmas but was denied and told that

“if I wanted visitation, I had to go through Our House and reestablish visitation.” On

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31 December 2023, Respondent did inquire of Petitioner’s wife as to how Curt’s

Christmas went. Respondent did not reach out to Petitioner or Petitioner’s wife again,

and the Record does not reflect that Respondent ever subsequently contacted Our

House.

On 24 May 2024, Petitioner filed a petition seeking Respondent’s parental

rights to be terminated. On 31 January 2025, the trial court entered an order

adjudicating Curt to be a willfully abandoned and neglected minor child (the

“Adjudication Order”). The trial court found, in relevant part:

31. There has been no contact between the [Respondent]
and the child since Christmas 2022. The Respondent [] did
have the ability to participate in phone calls with the child.
The [Respondent] felt like those were not meaningful and
disconnected those phone calls, even though there is no
evidence that anyone cut off those phone calls other than
the Respondent [] herself;
....

39. The Respondent [] has abandoned the child;

40. Specifically in that six-month period immediately
preceding the filing of the Termination of Parental Rights
action, there has been no contact between [Respondent]
and minor child, and in fact, not since December 2022.
During that period there has been no evidence of visits,
mail, gifts, electronic communication or phone calls;

....

42. That Respondent has had the ability to maintain
personal contact, love, and affection with the minor child
and has had the ability to emotionally support the minor
child. Respondent has willfully failed and refused to do so[.]

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The trial court then entered an order terminating Respondent’s parental rights that

same day (the “Disposition Order”). Respondent timely appealed these orders.

II. Jurisdiction

This Court has jurisdiction over an appeal by a non-prevailing parent from an

order terminating her parental rights pursuant to N.C.G.S. §§ 7A-27(b)(2) and 7B-

1001(a)(7) (2023).

III. Standard of Review

This Court reviews a termination of parental rights order to determine

“whether the findings of fact are supported by clear, cogent and convincing evidence

and whether these findings, in turn, support the conclusions of law.” In re M.J.S.M.,

257 N.C. App. 633, 636 (2018) (citation omitted). “If unchallenged on appeal, findings

of fact are deemed supported by competent evidence and are binding upon this Court.”

Id. (citation omitted). Further, “[e]ven where there is evidence in the record to the

contrary, if the trial court’s findings of fact are supported by ample, competent

evidence, they are binding on appeal.” In re A.N.B., 290 N.C. App. 151, 168 (2023)

(citation modified).

This Court reviews de novo a trial court’s conclusions of law. See In re K.J.M.,

288 N.C. App. 332, 339 (2023). “Under a de novo review, this Court considers the

matter anew and freely substitutes its own judgment for that of the lower tribunal.”

Id. (citation omitted).

IV. Analysis

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On appeal, Respondent argues the trial court erred in concluding that

Respondent willfully abandoned Curt. Specifically, Respondent contends several

findings of fact are unsupported by competent evidence and that her visits with Curt

in 2022, her requests to visit Curt in 2023, and her text about Curt’s Christmas in

2023 show that she did not willfully abandon her son. Instead, Respondent argues

“Petitioner actively thwarted her attempts to see Curt.” We disagree.

A trial court may terminate parental rights under N.C.G.S. § 7B-1111(a)(7) if

“[t]he parent has willfully abandoned the juvenile for at least six consecutive months

immediately preceding the filing of the petition [to terminate parental rights.]”

N.C.G.S. § 7B-1111(a)(7) (2023). “In the context of abandonment, willfulness is more

than an intention to do a thing; there must also be purpose and deliberation.” In re

D.M.O., 250 N.C. App. 570, 572–73 (2016) (citation, internal quotation marks, and

brackets omitted). “The most frequently approved definition is that abandonment

imports any willful or intentional conduct on the part of the parent which evinces a

settled purpose to forego all parental duties and relinquish all parental claims to the

child.” In re C.K.I., 379 N.C. 207, 210 (2021) (citation omitted). “Although the trial

court may consider a parent’s conduct outside the six-month window in evaluating a

parent’s credibility and intentions, the ‘determinative’ period for adjudicating willful

abandonment is the six consecutive months preceding the filing of the petition.” Id.

(citation omitted). “If a parent withholds his presence, his love, his care, the

opportunity to display filial affection, and willfully neglects to lend support and

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maintenance, such parent relinquishes all parental claims and abandons the child.”

In re J.D.C.H., 375 N.C. 335, 338 (2020) (citation and brackets omitted).

Respondent first challenges Findings of Fact 15, 25, 26, 30, 40, and 42 in the

Adjudication Order:

15. Respondent shows no interest in maintaining a
consistent relationship with the minor child;

....

25. Our House . . . sent a letter to the Respondent []
recommending that the child engage in counseling, and
that the visits be suspended for ninety (90) days. Then the
[Respondent] could at that point ask to have the Our House
visits be reconsidered;

26. The Respondent [] never contacted Our House again.
Respondent did not do anything to re-instate those visits.
Respondent [] did not inquire who the counselor was or how
to be involved with that counseling;

....

30. In the six-month period leading up to the filing of the
Petition, and in fact, since December 2022, the Respondent
[] has not provided any support for the minor child either
financially or emotionally;

....

40. Specifically in that six-month period immediately
preceding the filing of the Termination of Parental Rights
action, there has been no contact between [Respondent]
and minor child, and in fact, not since December 2022.
During that period there has been no evidence of visits,
mail, gifts, electronic communication or phone calls;

....

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42. That Respondent has had the ability to maintain
personal contact, love, and affection with the minor child
and has had the ability to emotionally support the minor
child. Respondent has willfully failed and refused to do so[.]

Respondent argues “[t]he plenary evidence shows [she] tried to use relative

supervisors to visit Curt on his birthday, on Thanksgiving, and on Christmas, all in

2023 and all visits were refused by Petitioner.” Respondent further contends that the

letter sent to her from Our House “clearly established that Curt’s therapist and the

visitation center staff would determine when visits would begin again[,]” such that

“the letter plainly stated [Respondent] had no authority to restart visits[,]” and “there

is no record evidence that [she] ever even knew the therapist’s name and contact

information.” She argues this “impermissibly shift[s] the burden to [Respondent] to

disprove termination grounds[,]” such that she “should have gotten therapy for

herself or for her son Curt to satisfy the visitation center’s need for a therapeutic

recommendation . . . or [] that [Respondent] could have or should have filed a motion

for contempt or a motion to modify the civil custody orders for more visitation.”

Our appellate courts have upheld that findings pertaining to a respondent

parent’s failure to take action—not just a parent’s affirmative acts—constitute a

proper basis for the termination of parental rights. See In re Apa, 59 N.C. App. 322,

324 (1982) (holding the trial court did not err in concluding the minor child was

abandoned where the respondent-father “made no other significant attempts to

establish a relationship with [the minor child] or obtain rights of visitation with [the

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minor child,]” “except for an abandoned attempt to negotiate visitation and support”);

see also In re I.R.M.B., 377 N.C. 64, 72 (2021) (finding grounds of abandonment where

the respondent-father was aware of his ability to seek legal custody and visitation

rights but took no action during the determinative six-month period).

In In re A.L.S., the respondent-mother argued she did not willfully abandon

her minor child where she did not have visitation rights, and the petitioners

prevented her from seeing her minor child. 374 N.C. 515, 521 (2020). Our Supreme

Court upheld the trial court’s termination of the respondent-mother’s parental rights,

explaining that, “[w]hile there was evidence of ill will between [the] petitioners and

[the] respondent-mother, this Court has held that ‘a parent will not be excused from

showing interest in [the] child’s welfare by whatever means available.’” Id. at 522

(quoting In re C.B.C., 373 N.C. 16, 20 (2019)). The Court held that the “[r]espondent-

mother’s failure to even attempt any form of contact or communication with [the

minor child] gives rise to an inference that she acted willfully in abdicating her

parental role, notwithstanding any personal animus between her and [the]

petitioners.” Id. Further, the Court reasoned that, “[a]lthough the 2016 custody order

did not give [the] respondent-mother a right to visitation, the order in no way

prohibited [the] respondent-mother from contacting [the minor child].” Id. The Court

further explained that the trial court had found the “‘respondent-mother never sought

to modify that custody order’ in order to gain visitation rights.” Id.; see also In re

A.N.B., 290 N.C. App. at 169 (holding the trial court did not err in terminating

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father’s parent rights for willful abandonment where, although prohibited “from

engaging in visitation[,]” father was not prohibited from “contact entirely” and “had

the option to seek modification of the . . . [o]rder to reinstate specific visitation, but

he failed to take any action to do so”).

Here, the trial court found—and Respondent does not challenge—that

Respondent “has had no physical visitation with the minor child since on or around

December 2022” (Finding of Fact 14); “never sent the minor child any cards or letters

since on or around December 2022” (Finding of Fact 16); “has not provided the minor

child any [b]irthday gifts since on or around December 2022” (Finding of Fact 17);

“has not sent the minor child any type of written communication, either by mail,

electronic communication or by phone call since on or around December 2022”

(Finding of Fact 18); “has not provided the Petitioner any items needed for the minor

child such as clothing, shoes, school supplies, or any other personal items” (Finding

of Fact 19); and “has not provided any financial support for the minor child at least

since December 2022” (Finding of Fact 20).

Further, Respondent has not challenged Findings of Fact 27, 29, and 31, which

provide:

27. The Court specifically finds that it was not incumbent
upon Respondent [] to go to counseling herself, but at least
there would have been a voice in counseling for the child,
but she did not do so;

....

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29. That the Respondent [] represented herself in the
initial custody action Yadkin County file number 21-CVD-
632, and had an avenue available to her to file a motion
asking for a modification of that order, but did not do so;

....

31. There has been no contact between the [Respondent]
and the child since Christmas 2022. The Respondent [] did
have the ability to participate in phone calls with the child.
The [Respondent] felt like those were not meaningful and
disconnected those phone calls, even though there is no
evidence that anyone cut off those phone calls other than
the Respondent [] herself[.]

(emphasis added).

These unchallenged findings, deemed binding on appeal and supported by

competent evidence, see In re M.J.S.M., 257 N.C. App. at 636, in turn support the

trial court’s Findings of Fact 15, 30, 40, and 42 that Respondent, even without

physical visitation, did not show an interest in maintaining a “consistent

relationship” with Curt where Respondent did not contact Curt—either by phone

calls, letters, or electronic communication—within the six-month determinative

period, nor did Respondent provide Curt with any emotional or financial support by

way of gifts or other material support. Further, the trial court found that Respondent

failed to take the affirmative action of seeking a modification of the custody order or

contacting Our House. As our Supreme Court has held, Respondent “will not be

excused from showing interest in [the] child’s welfare by whatever means available.”

See In re A.L.S., 374 N.C. at 522. Thus, we conclude Respondent’s challenged findings

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of fact are supported by competent evidence, and this argument is overruled.

Respondent further argues, in a footnote:

[A]ll of the court’s findings or conclusions related to a lack
of contact or willful abandonment or termination ground
are unsupported. ([Findings of Fact] #39, #42[,] #44, #45,
#46[, and Conclusion of Law] #2) Similarly, the court’s
findings that termination of [Respondent]’s rights would be
in Curt’s best interest are also unsupported. ([Findings of
Fact] #47, #48, #49; p 46, #35[, and] #35)

As we have discussed Finding of Fact 42, we address only Findings of Fact 39, 44, 45,

46, 47, 48, 49 and Conclusion of Law 2 from the Adjudication Order and Finding of

Fact 35 from the Disposition Order. These challenged findings and the conclusion

from the Adjudication Order provide:

39. The Respondent [] has abandoned the child;

....

44. That the Respondent shows a settled purpose to forego
all parental duty and parental claims to the child;

45. That facts exist as set out above which warrant the
termination of Respondent’s parental rights to the juvenile
pursuant to N.C.G.S. § 7B-1111 and that the Petitioner
seeks to have Respondent’s parental rights remitted on the
following grounds:

a. [N.C.G.S. §] 7B-1111(a)(1) That the juvenile was
neglected;

b. [N.C.G.S. §] 7B-1111 (a)(7) That the juvenile was
willfully abandoned by the Respondent for at least
six (6) consecutive months immediately preceding
the filing of this petition;

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46. That the Respondent is both subject to termination of
her parental rights pursuant to [N.C.G.S.] § 7B-1111 (a)(1),
and [N.C.G.S.] § § 7B-1111(a)(7);

47. That it is in the best interest of the juvenile that
Respondent’s parental rights to the juvenile be terminated
based on the above allegations and pursuant to [N.C.G.S.]
§ 7B-1110;

48. That the Petitioner has provided, and will continue to
provide, a safe and stable home for the juvenile and the
termination of Respondent’s rights is in the best interest of
the juvenile;

49. Termination of the Parental Rights of [Respondent] will
give permanence and provide stability for the child;

....

2. Grounds exist to terminate the parental rights of
[Respondent] to [Curt], born on April 22, 2021, to wit:

A. Respondent has neglected the minor child, [Curt],
born on April 22, 2021, pursuant to N.C.G.S. § 7B-
1111(a)(1), in that she has failed to provide to the
minor child proper care, supervision, or discipline,
has abandoned the minor child, and has failed to
provide necessary medical care or remedial care.

B. Respondent has willfully abandoned the minor
child, [Curt], born on April 22, 2021, pursuant to
N.C.G.S. § 7B-1111(a)(7) in that she has failed to
exercise visitation or have a meaningful presence in
the minor child’s life.

Additionally, challenged Finding of Fact 35 from the Disposition Order

provides: “Granting the termination requested will aid in achieving permanence for

the minor child and serve his best interests going forward.”

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As discussed, however, the trial court’s binding findings of fact—that

Respondent has failed to contact Curt, provide any emotional or financial support to

Curt, or take affirmative action within her ability—support the trial court’s findings

and conclusions that Respondent has willfully abandoned Curt “for at least six

consecutive months immediately preceding the filing” of Petitioner’s petition

pursuant to N.C.G.S. § 7B-1111(a)(7) where Respondent withheld “[her] presence,

[her] love, [her] care, the opportunity to display filial affection, and willfully

neglect[ed] to lend support and maintenance[.]” In re J.D.C.H., 375 N.C. at 338; see

also In re M.J.S.M., 257 N.C. App. at 636. Accordingly, we conclude the trial court’s

findings of fact support its conclusion of law that grounds existed to terminate

Respondent’s parental rights under N.C.G.S. § 7B-1111(a)(7). See In re J.D.C.H., 375

N.C. at 338.

In another footnote, Respondent also argues that “[t]o the extent this Court

considers the trial court’s conclusion of the [N.C.G.S. §] 7B-1111(a)(1) ground as

neglect rather than neglect by abandonment, it is also unsupported.” Because a trial

court may terminate parental rights as long as one ground is met under N.C.G.S. §

7B-1111(a), and we conclude, under our de novo review, that the trial court properly

determined that Respondent willfully abandoned Curt under N.C.G.S. § 7B-

1111(a)(7), we need not address Respondent’s additional argument as to neglect. See

In re P.L.P., 173 N.C. App. 1, 8 (2005) (determining that “where the trial court finds

multiple grounds on which to base a termination of parental rights, and an appellate

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court determines there is at least one ground to support a conclusion that parental

rights should be terminated, it is unnecessary to address the remaining grounds”

(citation and internal quotation marks omitted)).

V. Conclusion

Upon careful review, we conclude the trial court’s findings of fact were

supported by competent evidence, and thus, the trial court properly terminated

Respondent’s parental rights.

AFFIRMED.

Judges COLLINS and MURRY concur.

Report per Rule 30(e).

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